i’m 14.
but i’m only 150cm and i weigh 54kg.
i feel so fat, i feel so short.
i am so ugly.
i feel so useless.
everyone around me has at least a talent, but there’s nothing i’m good at.
i feel like shit.
everyone around me, is so pretty. they dress up with hipster clothes and tumblr shit and they wear makeup. they look so pretty. they are so skinny.
i feel so scared.
i hate my body so much, i’m scared
i’m scared that im not good enough because i know i already aren’t
im scared that more people will continue to call me ugly and fat
im scared to scroll down my instagram feed seeing my friends looking .. sogood
im so scared
someone please help me
i feel so ugly
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So do you want to learn how to wear make-up and buy tumblr-esque clothes? What’s preventing you? Don’t you have money or you don’t know if you’ll be able to pull it off? If being the latter, you should not worry. You see, young people tend to look good in whatever they choose to wear.
Also 54 kg for 150 cm isn’t that bad, I strongly believe. Unless you have an eating disorder, if so please search for professional help.
I bet you’re friends think you’re beautiful too. We are all our own worst critics it seems. Try not to be so hard on yourself, I know that’s easier said than done. I struggle with image issues too, I think everyone does to a point.
Whoops *your
There’s something you’re good at, you just haven’t yet realized it. It’s there, lying quietly, waiting to be released. Incidentally, I have chicken legs and big feet. And my nose is so big it creates it’s own weather systems. The reality of who and what you or your friends are isn’t found on Instagram, it’s something much deeper. Keep looking, it’s there and it’s you, it’s yours.
I you want to talk email me
bobs65325@gmail.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aGZq9QdEMOA
Watch this
1) Delete Instagram
2) If people bully you, bully them back or ignore them, whatever works for you
3) You don’t have to earn other people’s acceptance. You just have to do what makes you happy, and the right people will love you for it, the wrong people will hate you for it, but that won’t matter
4) Big hug. You are beautiful.
You don’t even sound fat. Surely that’s a pretty normal height-to-weight ratio?
It is, her BMI is 24… It’s in the “normal” range
There you go then.
hi, i came to your page after you commented on a post of mine, to see if i can help in anyway, i guess.
i’m only a few centimetres taller than you, so, i don’t think you’re that short, and you still have time to grow, i wouldn’t worry about it.
but, about your weight, i guess that could make you seem shorter. i’m slim, so, i can give you some generic advice: eat healthier and exercise. if you do this properly, you could get the type of body you want. if you’ve tried this, really tried this, it could be due to some sort of health condition? if so, it could be genetic, so, ask your family. after that, it could be worth seeing a doctor.
i have fast/high metabolism, so, i can eat all the crap i want and will barely gain weight. it could be the opposite for you, you could have slow metabolism and have to adjust your diet.
my weight isn’t a problem for me, so, sorry if this so – called advice sucks. i hope it helps though.