Now you can try to stop me, I won’t listen. You can refer me to a hospital, that’ll make me more determined. So here’s my story.
Im 13, and my parents hate me. I’m that one fat kid in school who tries to fit in but gets made fun of. My own parents make fun of me. I can’t get a girlfriend, and it’s the end of the school year, so only one option. Suicide.
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Hold on. You are 13. Thirteen sucked for me. It sucks for a LOT of people…
Yes but I’m 13, haven’t had a girlfriend, and I am made fun of for being fat. Even the counselor laughs at me.
Okay Mr. “you can’t stop me”
first of all, hi & welcome to the site
Was that meant to be Insulting?
The counselor laughs at you? Seriously? WTF is up with that? FWIW, I’m not laughing at you. The school counselor or a therapist…which was laughing?
second of all, could you please explain to me, how “the end of the school year” could be a problem / reason to want to go so badly?
I thought “the end of school year” was good news…
or do u really love school all that much?
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not even in the slightest manner
it’s meant to break the ice
same goes for my second comment
but u do have a point
I have a very bad sense of humor
my apologies
The counselor. We don’t have a therapist.
Your fine I just didn’t know.
OK. Is there a teacher/parent/someone you trust that you can share this with? I mean, the counselor is there to help you out, not have you walk out of his/her office feeling worse about yourself.
Secondly…what do you think is 1 positive thing you can do to have yourself feel a little better about life?
Get a girlfriend. That would mean someone cares about me.
And I only have my friend, and that’s not saying much.
Excellent. Only thing is this has to be something you can control. What I mean is that you can control whether or not you ask a girl out, but you can’t control whether or not she says yes. Make sense?
Hey…if there’s someone you like…ask. Yeah, she may say no. Give yourself a pat on the back that you ASKED!
If I asked she would say no, I would go deeper into the stages of depression then I would off with myself.
OK, then maybe it’s a little too soon for that. A smaller step maybe? Even talking to your parents about how you feel?
Hahaha. Hahahahahaha.Hahhahahahahahahahha. That’s what my parents would say. I’m thinking of putting a picture up that way it makes things easier to understand lol.
Lovely. Sorry about that. You tell me…what is something you feel comfortable trying?
…Have you told your parents that their jokes hurt? Sometimes parents can be dumb AF. Believe me…I am one 😉
Hey, I just want you to realize that your not made to fit in, you’re made to stand out.
I love this.
Mehikka look at u !!! Bravooo 🙂
Where were u all that time…
In my shell of Depression…
well, I’d say you might wanna try getting out of that shell more often
u could do so many good things while out of that shell
Hey Mehikka, thanks for the inspiring comment. That should delay me a day or two.
Hey, no problem 😀
And you’re just getting to puberty…your body is going to continue to change for some time. You are still growing, changing, maturing. And like Mehikka said, you were made to stand out…whatever size or shape you are or become. It’s still you in there. If you have the guts to post here, at 13, you gotta be a pretty brave kid. Don’t ever sell yourself short. 🙂
The reason the counselor and everyone else at school make fun of me is because I have gynecomastia. Look it up if you want to.
Got it. Are you getting treatment? And the counselor has NO business laughing. Very unprofessional at least.
Went to a doctor in Kentucky he seen me laughed said it was my weight and told me to come back in 6 months.
Why the hell is everyone laughing? Maybe a dumb question, but do YOU want to lose weight? Are YOU happy with who you are, or do you want to change your weight?
Definitely don’t like the way I am now, but if I lost all that weight I would have stretch marks everywhere.
You would improve your health and stamina. You’d feel better. You have a point about the skin, but I think there is surgery for that.
Bottom line is that, even at 13, it’s your life…what do you want? 🙂
If it was my choice I would make everyone understand, but it’s not, so what can I say.
Try to focus on stuff you CAN control. If you want to lose weight, you can control your diet and exercise. You can’t control what other people say about it…or whether they “get it” or not. It’s all a lot of junk.
Well, thanks I gtg to bed, have a good night.
You too…..remember…there are ppl out here that believe in you. So you’re ok for at least tonight?
Maybe.
You got this. 🙂
Stop looking for happiness in the same place you lost it
if it means anything having a relationship doesn’t define you. neither does your body. once i read this youtube comment that changed my perspective on bodyweight. its kinda weird im sorry but: “maybe you have fat. but you also have fingernails. do you call yourself fingernail? you don’t. so why are you limiting yourself to something you have?…..” it goes on but the point is, thats not YOU. we all have fat, even the smallest people who are very thin, have the tiniest bit of fat. it’s how our bodies work. and if some people have more than others? so what? its a body, its a life, its a heart and a soul, you are a human being, along with everyone else. so be you and thats all you need. someone will find you and love you for who you are.
but again, being with someone doesn’t define you. you need to feel complete as an individual before adding a partner into the equation. if it makes you feel better, i am 17 and have never had a boyfriend. but that doesn’t make me any less valuable than someone who has been in a committed three year relationship. also at such a young age it can be difficult to be in a relationship because they rarely last when you meet so young. i mean my parents met at 19 and are married now, happily. but that is a VERY rare case. you have lot’s of time. no rush. be a kid while you still can 🙂 best of luck to you
Thanks Anne, I appreciate it.
But the thing is that my friend has been in a relationship since 4th grade, and we’re in 8th.
Nicely said Anne 🙂
I waited out on this conversation so I could get a better understanding of what your problems are…
please check my reply to you on ur “Home Alone” post… tc
[& by reply I mean that really long one that would take a whole day to be read 😀 ]