Definitely the note. Without a cause of death, the coroner is going to pop into your lifeless corpse like a cookie jar, violating the only thing left of your life. I just want to be tossed into an oven, clothes and all. What’s the difference?
thats a tough one, personally my not so well thought of plan includes removing myself from family and people who would care about me as in have the least amount of contact for a long time until they forget and then carry on with it just so i dont have to worry about that question. but realistically speaking the people who honestly care about you i feel deserve to know, although not many people would really understand since the way suicide is seen in general. but honestly theres no right answer, its what suits your situation the best id say
That is exactly what I am trying to do. To detach myself from my family and friends. Just be distant
It will certainly reduce the pain that they will bare if we weren’t not close you know ?
I feel like the note will give them closure nut sometimes it would often just bring them to ask more questions.
I don’t know what’s best either
Well, in light of everything that’s happened, I think you should put your writing implements away.
Give yourself some time.
There’s no way around the mourning process. Give yourself some time. Please.
It doesn’t get better. What happened recently was just the icing to the cake.
I’ve been waiting for tables to turn but to no avail.
I feel weak for running away from my problems but at this point in time I feel like I’ve waited long enough and is certainly my last resort.
I feel like a note is sotrt of melodramatic especially if its the usual goodbye carry on dont weep for me blah blah. I never saw the point in being all dramatic other than leaving a corpse which gets my point across fine.
A change will come
I’ve been waiting for two years now.
I’m drained
It’s a very hopeful song
I’ll listen to it every time I feel is deemed appropriate.
Thank you
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Definitely the note. Without a cause of death, the coroner is going to pop into your lifeless corpse like a cookie jar, violating the only thing left of your life. I just want to be tossed into an oven, clothes and all. What’s the difference?
Sometimes I feel like they don’t need an explanation you know ?
What’s the difference ?
I understand what you are saying though
thats a tough one, personally my not so well thought of plan includes removing myself from family and people who would care about me as in have the least amount of contact for a long time until they forget and then carry on with it just so i dont have to worry about that question. but realistically speaking the people who honestly care about you i feel deserve to know, although not many people would really understand since the way suicide is seen in general. but honestly theres no right answer, its what suits your situation the best id say
That is exactly what I am trying to do. To detach myself from my family and friends. Just be distant
It will certainly reduce the pain that they will bare if we weren’t not close you know ?
I feel like the note will give them closure nut sometimes it would often just bring them to ask more questions.
I don’t know what’s best either
I’d have to say some kind of note/communication would be best, just so there’s “an answer” of sorts to the big question people will ask.
But don’t you think that the so called ‘big question and answer’ will just make them ask more questions ?
Well, in light of everything that’s happened, I think you should put your writing implements away.
Give yourself some time.
There’s no way around the mourning process. Give yourself some time. Please.
It doesn’t get better. What happened recently was just the icing to the cake.
I’ve been waiting for tables to turn but to no avail.
I feel weak for running away from my problems but at this point in time I feel like I’ve waited long enough and is certainly my last resort.
I have never thought leaving a note was necessary. But I don’t have anyone in my life that I care about or that cares about me.
I would maybe write individual notes to people that you love if they exist.
I understand you.
I wish you could find somebody that you love and loves you back
You sometimes need them in your life.
I’m here if you need to talk.
Write a suicide note that leaves people with questions. I’m kidding…maybe.
I like to be mysterious.
Stay safe.
Haha
Thanks for making me laugh
You too.
I feel like a note is sotrt of melodramatic especially if its the usual goodbye carry on dont weep for me blah blah. I never saw the point in being all dramatic other than leaving a corpse which gets my point across fine.
Yeah very true
Leaving a note will not bring me back
I’m gone. The note might give then closure but will not sympathise their situation
@Baked 13
This made me think of you. I’m sure it’s not your style of music, but it just may speak to your soul: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k6YCxXQ6Scw
A change will come
I’ve been waiting for two years now.
I’m drained
It’s a very hopeful song
I’ll listen to it every time I feel is deemed appropriate.
Thank you
Thinking of you. (Still squeezing your hand).
Keep posting here. We’re here for you.
Thank you.
I’m here for you and anyone else that needs anything too.
@Baked13 check the comment that went to moderation, it’s a you tube link that I think you may like.
Baked13,
We all think it’s so important that other’s “loved ones” or who ever know why we did it!
The truth is it matters to you for what ever reason until your dead then it doesn’t matter any longer.
It may matter to the people you leave the note to until they die then it doesn’t matter to them any longer.
In other words it really doesn’t matter in the end, everything we do doesn’t matter.
The only argument I can come up with is caring what others think once i’m dead but i wouldn’t know about it?
I think if I’m going to care what people think about me it’s best for me to stay alive.
Wow.
This is the actually reality of the matter
It actually doesn’t matter
The while idea of living to me has no purpose and simply doesn’t matter.
I like your argument. It makes a lot of sense.
Note of not ? It doesn’t change the facts. After a few that note will probably be burned anyway.