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Okay. So I don’t really know how this works. What if someone I know finds this, what then? How am I going to explain all this. When people I know see my cuts they judge and say I do it for attention so what will they think if they ever found this? I just need my space, I want to be able to express my thoughts without being scared but I guess fear is always going to be there.

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PhotographyIsMyLife 8/8/2017 - 7:29 am

Hi!
Unfortunately, all of this is accessible via search engines like Google. For example if you Google your username I believe your post(s) will come up in the results. There was also somebody on Facebook who was posting (automatically I assume) all activity here to his/her FB page. I don’t know if this is still hapoening. This is NOT a private space.
What you CAN do: password-protect your posts. The only way people can see them is if they enter their SP passwords. Personally, I have never been able to enter my password and have a post unlock; maybe it’s my browser.

PhotographyIsMyLife 8/8/2017 - 7:40 am

How to confront judgemental people? I suspect I’m older than you (50s)…I try the FEITCTAJ method. (Fuck ‘m if they can’t take a joke. 🙂 ) Tell them whatever the hell YOU want to! Control the situation. It takes practice. It’s scary. But doable. If it’s someone who truly cares about you and may actually listen, try being honest with them. If they care but there is no way can except the truth, then maybe a little polite deception. If the folks obviously don’t give a shit about you? A dose of flaming sarcasm might work. 🙂
You can DO this. Bottom line; don’t worry about what they’re thinking about you, surround yourself with loving supportive people as much as you can.

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