So apparently the admins here have become pro life and have started taking down posts that even hint of somebody expressing their intent to commit suicide.
I posted a post headed ‘I’m a coward’s which the admins took down. The posts talked of my failure to jump off a high rise due to lack of courage, and I asked other people here if ingesting poison would be easier.
Who are running this site? 2 year old kids, or 100 year old grannies?
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madhurgupta, i find that really pathetic that they take things like that. Most people here just need a word from someone or to rent and let it out. If it’s not offensive i feel like there is no reason for it to be taken down.
Yes.
i don’t know what’s up with this site. it’s like they’ve become painfully politically correct or something. maybe they got new management? who knows, but, i can understand the regulating of discussing methods, but, i mean, the site’s called suicideproject. they should just change the name then, to something less dark. like… “lifeproject” or something. just an idea. cheers.
You discussed methods, which is against site rules, and has been for a long as I can recall.
Maybe take a minute to appreciate that someone is running this site for your benefit free of charge?
Is talking about being afraid of poison equal to talking about a method? Maybe take a minute to appreciate how dumb you really are.
“The posts talked of my failure to jump off a high rise due to lack of courage, and I asked other people here if ingesting poison would be easier.”
F*cktard.
Also, you’re evidently mistaken about what this site is for. It’s supposed to be a supportive environment for people who struggle, not some nest of psychos egging each other on to commit suicide, which is what it sadly seems to be sliding towards.
I quickly read a few posts here, and all I can say is it seems “ugly + inappropriate”.
May I suggest you all take a minute BREATHE….And try to act (or pretend to be) decent + kind human beings????
Calling a depressed stranger (this IS a suicide site), borders on Abusive…There are kinder ways to express your lack of understanding about why someone feels a certain way…
Ok next you’ll likely come after me with some witty (carefully concealed) insults and put-downs…And I’ll just post my respinse now (saves coming back to a potentially destrucyive group/thread…My response to the angry or haters or malicious types of people here=
STFU…Be nice, show compassion towarss others diring a difficult time in their lives OR STFU!
Thank you (if you got this far into my note (honest + direct remarks).
So now if you have some free time, because, you agree with me + will stop this back + forth mean-spirited BS– >
Check out my own personal music playlists at Ytube –
A few weeks (maybe a month+) ago I decided I lmwould start organizing them better (they were for my own use only) and share eith others who need to HEAR reasonable positive and life-enriching messages. (Btw there’s a few that are funny, sexy and/or just bad music, if youre intetested way I saved certain songs (poeerful to me) just ask.
Here’s the playlist (still in progress, not done or completely organized yet), but really good so far,
THAT MIGHT BENEFIT THOSE WITH DARK, or DEPRESSED or ANGRY, or NEGATIVE, or HOPELESS AND/or *UNREASONABLE Self-defeating * attitudes:
Enjoy:)
Watch “Suicide-Don’t Do It!” on YouTube
Suicide-Don’t Do It!: http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLSJmTuts0bPdSXc00poe68rxoUvsaeiwD
P.s. Some of the posts here reak of DECADENCE — > Look it up @ merriam webster or dictionary.com
+ The synomyns for “dumb” are especially interesting.
And yes, I am being a bit sarcastic (not about my music which is VERY important to me) but the rest, like saying ” STFU “.
I Just WANTED To lighten up you guys so you might instead focus on sonething worthwhile, that matters,
like LIVING LIFE so you can ENJOY something,
to make up for all the evil
so hard to avoid sometimes,
especially when you exist in a “Decadent SOCIETY” with few loving or supportive people, in your little world,
LIKE I DO.
Take Care
Kathryn
You need to be banned, if for no other reason that you are rude, and repeatedly keep calling people *you do NOT even know “dumb”…
And as for your UNREASONABLE, IRRATIONAL
ideas, (distorted thoughts you wrongly believe is YOUR contribution to this site),
regarding “methods” a human living being might ‘choose to MURDER themselves’
which (possibly may also be a ‘psychotic flight of ideas’ (IDK), but certainly possible ,
— >
If you still don’t get WHY your posts would be considered offensive + inappropriate,
you really should find some place else to share your thoughts. NOT HERE!
Suggestion: Look into a mirror, and see what your natural, instinctual, spirit/soul or innate “life force” thinks about your (ridiculous) banter, and shouts back at you.
Honestly, I just think your seeking NEGATIVE attention.
People do that when their self esteem and confidence is really messed-up.
Regardless of your mental status or motivations, you realky need to just STFU- BECAYSE I feel there really are some very SPECIAL PEOPLE HERE,
IN GREAT NEED,
+ just struggling to stay alive,
(If they erre 100% sure they wsnted to be dead, they certainly would not delay that PROJECT,
and go on a computer/phone to interact with others (in similar really difficult situations).
No there would be other tasks they’d be doing,
If they weren’t trying to cling to hope (anything possible/available)
to STOP the suicide project, they have in their mind…
And YOUR filling their hurt/sad/desperate minds with actual killing methods is simply just ABUSIVE AND CRUEL. ? Sadistic?
I want them to STAY ALIVE (just like sonebody wanted ME to stay alive, when I did not want to), so I (unlike you) since I am a decent and kind (living) person, stopped by to give them suggestions (methods) FOR LIVING ——-Not dying.
— > And btw, dying (killing yourself) is really really easy. Even a mentally retarded (“challenged”) person could think up a method, all on their own.
Maybe about 5 mins. is all it woukd take forANYBODY to devise an EFFECTIVE (would work) method.
So is it possibly that YOU, who has a need to discuss it at length, might be the ONLY “dumb” (your word) PERSON HERE today????
Trust me LIVING is the hardest thing to do when people + events in your life really suck – but life CAN be amazing and wonderful,when you listen to + focus on the RIGHT THINGS.
Living=Right; Dying=Wrong. And that is a natural instinct all living objects/beings gave when they are createf (born).
Killing/murdering yourself, which is by definition “suicide” is not “normal” human attribute or instinct, therefore it is wrong, aberrant or abnormal and a learned behavior, not instinctual.
Maybe later I ll come back to give some more living methods…
(Check out my enriching/nourishing/healing music playlists I recently shared here- It got me through 2+ years of bad (abnormal/unwelcome/unpleasant) suicidal thoughts that I had.
(Make YOUR OWN playlist , songs YOU love that inspire you, make you feel better and can/will change your mood or outlook -Your own personal list would be bettet than mine, cause only you know what you like, enjoy and LOVE.
But mine’s really good to get some ideas (excellent musicisns whose lyrics have significsnt impact on all others)
AND MOST IMPORTANTLY,
For now I’ll also suggest (to counter-attack any ridiculous death method conversations here:
)
FIND SOME-ONE OR SOME-THING U LOVE,
let it love you and love it back 🙂
Until “I” can reach my friend to HUG today (he does that when I’m really sad or entering an angry/frustrated melt-down mode,
(like now cause that “mean + insensitive guy” pissed me off so bad)..
.I think I’ll hug (eat) some chocolate, cause I really do love it (my entire life) +
When I do/say/eat/feel etc. things I love, living seems really easy and nice.
(Death and death thoughts or planning NEVER was nice, or anything good).
Yep, I really should NOT be alive right now-
I very carefully planned out dying (for 2 years) anf tge entire plan (aka project was WRONG + DUE TO UNREASONABLE thinking).
Simply LOVE brought me back to being fully alive AGAIN (no longer thinking about planning my death),
and I think I’m (usually) really intelligent, unlike the death method guy who keeps calling everyone “dumb”.
He CLEARLY needs professional help, hope he gets it, even if ADMINS here need to force that help on him (check his IP address).
Plus, if you’re here to save people, then you should recommend the admins to change the name of the website to something like “Samaritans” or “Suicide help group”
PPP3, do you have anything productive to do? Or you just sit around whole day lingering around on these websites?
I wasn’t discussing methods to commit suicide. That’s why I called the other guy dumb.
Plus, learn to write with better grammar.
… dunno…. but i wish there was a place for those who are going to commit suicide to talk methods. Well there is but it is some Asian blog with all those strange people from those freaky countries. I learned a few things, they do not like to express feelings or use language, they like to get to point, they do not feel…. don’t even know what they are about. But if I’m banned so be it…. best methods they shared pulmonary artery tic……. or jugular I confuse the artery names…. quick slice …. dead in a minute or two not much pain….. I think I might use that method….or cliff jump or otc overdose..
Your comment made me laugh. “…..some Asian blog with all those strange people from those freaky countries”.
Sorry Adolph, but people are people all over the world, including the “strange people from freaky Asian countries”.
Asians have contributed much.
Japanese women.
Japanese cars, trucks and motorcycles.
Chinese food and Mongolian BBQ.
Sushi.
Sake.
Japanese porn.
Ghengis Kahn.
There’s probably more but I think I’ve covered the highlights here. Try to be more tolerant, man.
Blame the person who reported your post. The admin leaves the site alone and lets people say what they want, until someone reports a post. To that complainer: why not talk to the OP like a normal human instead of crying to the admin. So much more can be accomplished that way.
Are you a dunce? Many people report many posts to the admin but the admin takes down only those posts that he wants to.
Also, about your advice to talk like a normal human, do you know who reported my post to the admin? So whom should I talk to? Your hand? You’re dumb. So dumb that you’re already deader than dead so you don’t even need to commit suicide.
Do you know this for sure? I’ve always assumed that the admin are closely monitoring the site(due to legal ramifications)and that there may even be outside agencies that are monitoring it. Especially when there are discussions of “suicide by police” on here or talk of the hatred of humanity and taking out others when they go.
Stranger, for all I know you are the admin? Am I being paranoid? LOL
I kinda doubt admin would call users who report transgressions “crybabies”. At least publicly.
It would be one of the best ways to cloak yourself though. To present oneself as just one of the gang. To not hesitate to engage(even negatively)would be a good cover to try and encourage others to moderate their behavior. Not that “Stranger” is this, I was just joking. But not about how closely I think the site is being monitored.
Don’t flatter yourself.
I think admin do a commendable job, this website is amazing, and I would be sort of lost without it, but it’s not exactly like they react lightning fast.
I mean: I’m impressed, but I think they have a day job. I hope they have a day job.
Would YOU want to spend all day monitoring depressed people talking about how they want to die but are scared to die? I know I wouldn’t.
Flattering myself? I’ve read your comments. Who the fuck are you to accuse anyone of flattering themselves.
Some depressed people or mentally ill can be a danger to others. To monitor this and the multitude of sites like it could not be done by just human power. So computer surveillance programs were made to search the sites/web for specific phrases “kill the president” “kill as many as I can” “shoot up the school” “kill the infidels” etc. On a world wide level or even a national level this would still be a tremendous amount of “hits” to investigate. But within a local site/web it may be done to protect the that community.
I never said the site wasn’t monitored. Of course it’s monitored. But we’re not taking NSA-level stuff here. Come on. This is a relatively small website, run pro bono. You think these people have nothing better to do?
I meant “flatter yourself” in the sense of admin being super interested in us as users.
But who cares? You’re an asshole anyway. First you take a dump on people who dare to even contemplate flirting on this website (including me). Then I help you with a technical problem because you posted something you regretted. And now you take another dump on me.
You’re a POS.
My apologies.
I did take “flatter yourself” wrong.
Not an excuse but I am amping a bit today.
And I did appreciate your tech assistance.
But what I referred to in the other comment was not about light flirting that you and others have done here but the sleazy feigned concern about the distress of another when it was obvious by their remarks what they are really interested in. Anyways, you or anyone else here doesn’t have to listen to my shit anymore. I’m gone by the end of the month.
Apology accepted, and sorry, I went overboard there. I take back what I said about you.
I see what you mean, and agreed, it is sleazy to feign concern like that. But maybe that is the only (ineffective) way those guys know to talk with a woman? I dunno, I think it’s super hard to navigate, and women are very circumspect about how they want men to act. Either it’s too much or it’s too little. It’s never right.
But yeah, class act of you to apologise, and I don’t want you to off yourself. I hope you find the will to live again.
I’m sorry again for calling you a POS, that was wrong. Take care 🙂
Thank you. It’s nice to hear as I see things sometimes escalate on here and thats not good for anyone. I went overboard myself. I have mania. I usually know to stay off of sites when it hits.
And hetero relations have always mystified me in general. I should have never have commented on them. LOL
And I don’t even know what POS means” LOL
Oh, I got it “piece of shit” LOL
You can comment on whatever you like. I had no reason to take it personally. And sorry again. Gosh that was rude of me. Anyway, all the best mate.
Bro, Go On Reddit And Visit the Subreddit, SanctionedSuicide.. Or Depression, if you’re just feeling gloomy
On SanctionedSuicide, everyone is super chill and open about death. I stopped coming on here a bit ago, and started reading and posting on there.
I just checked it out… it’s ok but not much help since everyone there is like, Let’s commit suicide. Then why stick around talking? To me the point of any suicide site is to offer support to people until they decide to do it, then no talk is necessary. That’s why I sometimes like coming here, but occasionally the crybabies win and this place gets heavily censored. Again, blame the crybabies not the admin. I wish people wouldn’t get so hung up on “the rules” and instead realize why we’re all here.
I don’t know about you, but I’m not here to encourage others to off themselves.
I have lost people to suicide, I’ve attempted suicide myself, and I don’t think there is anything romantic about it whatsoever.
It’s the end of life, that is all it is, and it hurts other people too.
I think it’s immature of you to be so far down your own rabbit hole that you don’t have empathy or hope for others.
Also, visit the subreddit Depression, SuicideWatch.. theres alot of subreddits, you can find any sort of community.
That will make me sad of the admin become unable to understand depessed people like admins from other sites for depression does…I used to come here alot as a teen and expersioning and taking about my ture feeling with eople who gave hones answers really got me trought some tough times…freedom to share what is in your head is what makes his site good
Oops my prior note had bunch of typos and ommitted words- sorry…
E.g” Calling a depressed stranger (this IS a suicide site),****mistakenly blank**** borders on Abusive…There are kinder ways to…”
I went back to choose exact words I found offensive (insults aka ” spirit-crushing”, and i gorgot to type them in…
Should say before “borders on abusive”, words from other posts such as, “DUMB, CRY-BABIES, ASSHOLE, POS”. .etc.
Hopefully the unreasonable clueless get my point= You might hate yourself and your life (be miserable) but it’s really unnecessary (mean, cruel and/or abusuve) to insult others (especially since YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW them personally ( so that you knock-them-down and drag them into your own dark falling hole (? to a hell-like place?).
Nope, workd has enough evil + damaging people in it, don’t need them here. Really.
On a personal note, Ask me how many times my abusive brother (58 yo misrrable, gambling addict) has said to me,
“You’ll never get your life back, why dob’t you just go kill yourself!?!?”
My Point being, if I wanted to hear or witness abusive remarks, I simply could just call my brother to get knocked down or more defeated/depressed, I wouldn’t need strangers/website to acvomplush that. (!)
Have a PPPP3 Day:)
= Peaceful, Positive & Productive, with Trust in God (Proverbs (3) 5-6.
…And if you don’t believe in God, just replace the 4th “P” (biblical verse about God), with a Person or People, you love, respect + trust.