by my parents:
-I found you in the garbage.
-You’re not mine (even though I am biologically theirs).
-You’re useless and will never amount to anything.
-You’re worthless.
-You’re a disappointment.
-You’re a disgrace.
-You’re stupid.
-You’re ugly.
-It’s not worth it to feed you.
-Plus many more nasty things.
You grow up fucked up in the head, then when you DON’T achieve success because they fucked you up mentally (and because they did everything they could to sabotage you as a child), then see, we were right, so you ARE a failure after all.
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It is gonna take me awhile to wrap my head around all this. It also seems eerily familiar.
It’s taken me a lifetime, and I still can’t undo all the mental damage they’ve done to me.
I call it the box of lies. They told me a bunch of shit that has kept on hurting me to this day but i can not remember any more what they exactly said. But whether i remember it consciously or not, the damage just keeps going.
That’s fucked up. Frankly, this sounds all too eerie and now I recall how abusive my as*hole parents were.
I can never forget how they’ve eroded my self-confidence away then tell me I have no backbone.
Right. Blaming you for the very shit they brought about. Sick puppies.
“Blaming you for the very shit they brought about” – EXACTLY. They blamed me for all the shit THEY created. Then when I grow up depressed and broken, it’s MY fault.
Monsters.
This is heartbreaking. Don’t know what else to say apart from that I hope it gets better for you. x
Thanks.