I love how my dad decides to be a father whenever he feels like it
He expects me to take care of his family, problem is I can’t even take care of myself
he just ignores the fact that he has responsibilities and just shitting mad at me for not doing his shit and doesn’t think that what he’s doing is wrong. He never admits that he’s wrong.
I feel like my mom loves him out of fear if that makes sense she would never have the courage to leave him
we just got a new baby sister and my dad made me spend the hospital nights with my mom while he was doing who knows
plus I took my mom to her babycheckups stuff bc he didn’t feel like it. I’m 16 btw
when we were at the hospital he came to check on my mom and she was trying to get up to go the bathroom and he yelled at me for not helping her when he was completely capable of helping her at that moment. And says shit like the only person here who needs help is you. All this shit said in front of the nurse. I was a bit embarrassed but it isn’t the first time for him to shit talk me in front of others. But I never talk back to him. I don’t even talk to him only if I have to
yeah now we have a baby check up and now he’s telling my brother from work to go with my mom
i guess if you’ve seen my first rant on here you’d know my situation if u care you can look at it
to summarize this shit, I hate my life and I don’t want to live
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grrrrreat!!
btw…i can relate well to “jewish gilt”
wrong post…my apologies..
I feel bad for you, but well done for behaving better than your dad is.
I dunno what to say. So many young people here stuck with what sounds like unreasonable parents. Some day you will leave home and be able to “spread your wings” a little more.
Until then, just stick up for what you think is right.
And ask for help if you need it. It sounds like it couldn’t hurt. Maybe there is someone empathic you can ask? A teacher, relative or friend?
Hi thank you for your response. I can’t really speak up to anyone bc no one ever takes my side.
But I do feel like I’m living on false hope that things will get better and that like you said spread my wings. I feel like I’ll never reach my full potential
My dad is the same way. I understand that it can be just awful and scary living in that house and being forced to take on that much responsibility. I’m sorry for everything you’re going through right now, but one day it will get better, but it will take a lot of work to improve your situation. You will have to go to school and work hard there. Then, maybe try and get into college, so you can move out. However, once you move out, it can still be shitty, and you may still feel like he’s there controlling you and treating you like shit, but every day you’re away it will get better, and once you get an adult job and a life, you won’t ever have to deal with him again, and maybe you will even get the confidence to stand up to him one day. I’m sorry that it might be a long time until you are really able to get completely out of this situation, but stick through it, you’re 16 and so close to getting out of the house! I hope this helps a little, and good luck.
Thank you so much for the positive response. I appreciate it. I do hope things will get better when I move out. But I do agree that it will be a struggle.