last night one of my best friends tried to force herself on me. I’m a (mostly) straight female and have never shown any interest in her. she made me feel so incredibly objectified. I rejected her over and over and she wouldn’t take no for answer, but ended up crying herself to sleep, after her guilt trips on me didn’t work.
”But it’s been so long for me. I’m so lonely. And I’ve done so much for you. What about all of the times I’ve driven you home from work?”
she asked me if I thought she was ugly. she asked me why nobody wants to be with her (she’s been single for 6 years.) she said that she’s giving up.
ive told her before, and I had to tell her again last night…that I’m still in love with my ex. who passed away almost 2 years ago. I think about him everyday. he is still the only person I want to be with, even though I can’t.
Chris. I miss you so much.
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Luck you
wtf
Lucky you*
um….what?
no really wtf… How is she lucky? Someone forcing themselves on another isn’t ‘lucky’. That’s messed up
Letmyheartsing Are you f*cking daft? Are you just here to make people uncomfortable when they are already having a shitty time? I see why your mom hates you if that is your purpose in life. How’s it feel to have someone treat you the way you treat others, btw?
MISZION- I’m sorry for what you experienced. Sounds like your friend isn’t much of a friend :/
It’s good that you know how to set boundaries. It’s good that you refuse to be manipulated by another person’s psyche. But what I really want to say is how sorry I am for your loss.
thank you <3
Thats messed up.
Your bf is lonely. And so are you. Maybe she was feeling needy. She’s having doubts and you are obviously a strong woman. I’m sorry you lost your love.
thanks everyone. I know she is really lonely but she crossed the line. I said no over and over again, while she used her weight and guilt against me. I was able to shut it down before it went any further than that, but I still feel incredibly violated. she sees no problem with what she did, according to another friend who we both talked to about it this morning. :/
also, letmyheartsing, I’m not sure why you view it that way, but my guess is you’re probably just as romantically lonely as the person who violated me if you think that sexual assault is a blessing.
Good guess