Between working full time, my 7yrold finally being officially diagnosed as level 2 autism, in a custody battle with my 3yrolds father, and my daughter turning into a young woman. And then i attempted to date but he turned out to be a fkboy in sheeps clothing. Which always happens to me idk y i bother dating. Just really didnt have time to check in with myself to see if im mentally okay or not. Im 1 of those people who stays calm while the room is collapsing and on fire. Idk id say im in that numb stage right now. Like i wanna get through this work day, pray a lawyer doesnt attack me n these waiting rooms quit bein my 2nd home 🙁
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My 3yrolds dad wants to take him from me because hes married, im not. He has his own house, i rent. He makes 2700 a month, i def dont get up that high. So he figures hes a better parent then me which is nonsense. I love my son, i give him the things he needs, hes always excited to see mommy. But when i drop him off at his dads, he cries n runs away. Just wish people would stop addin more stress to my stress
People adding stress to our stress – that’s the truth.
HEY! my dad also fought my mom over me.
My mom and I both knew that if he ever got the custody, he would be sorry for it.
Then bottom line is: give the kids to him, he will break down, later or record your kids saying about them dad being a shit parent, sue him, and he will never fight you again.
I know it sounds unbelievable, but it is totally true.
We were so civil to eachother but when i told him to okay daycare authorization. He lost his mind n decided he wanted full custody n didnt want our son in daycare. Like because i couldnt pay $700 every month for daycare, im the bad parent. I helped him stop childcare payments, we agreed to 50/50 custody but when i ask for help with childcare, then he changes the whole game n decides oh well my wife will watch our son n u can have him everyother weekend. Like how tf did i go from havin him 7days down to 2!?! Hes bein an ass n wants to save money. My eldest 2 kids go to daycare, but my youngest cant go thanks to his dad. He unnecessarily complicated everything to make my life harder.