Shame is a major player in my thinking. I am ashamed of what I have done, I am ashamed of several aspects of myself, and I carry heavy shame as result of mistreatment from the parental unit. Kinda like the thehusk said, I don’t think there is anything you can type that is going to be judged by me.
Right now your post is just 12 hours old so it says at the bottom right of it. If you want to make some hard to express comments , perhaps wait a day or so when this post is a page or two from the top and then whatever you need to say is a bit a less conspicuous. Tell you what, I will post a “how are you doing” comment to the this post in about 24 hours.
If despite letting a day go by, somebody makes a disrespectful comment to you, I hope they don’t, but if they do, I would certainly encourage you to report it.
You have been on here awhile and I think you deserve to be heard and heard respectfully and with empathy.
Not very good. Did you know that I haven’t been taking my pills for the last five months? But my doctors and family all think that I have been. I’m liar and I should cut out my tongue.
I would think you are not taking the pills because they are unsafe or some other unwelcome effect. If so, when you tell family and doctor you are taking them, but are not, you are not harming them, but are protecting yourself from undue pressure to take them. I see no obvious transgression in that.
If your untruth was harming them, that would be deception, and that would be good cause for guilt. But this does not look to be the case.
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anything of illegal nature ?
No
Want to try or have you done it ?
For some of what I’m taking about, I have done it, and got bad results. The other stuff I haven’t tried though.
You’re welcome to email me any time. I don’t think there’s anything that could give me reason to judge you harshly.
Thank you
Shame is a major player in my thinking. I am ashamed of what I have done, I am ashamed of several aspects of myself, and I carry heavy shame as result of mistreatment from the parental unit. Kinda like the thehusk said, I don’t think there is anything you can type that is going to be judged by me.
Right now your post is just 12 hours old so it says at the bottom right of it. If you want to make some hard to express comments , perhaps wait a day or so when this post is a page or two from the top and then whatever you need to say is a bit a less conspicuous. Tell you what, I will post a “how are you doing” comment to the this post in about 24 hours.
If despite letting a day go by, somebody makes a disrespectful comment to you, I hope they don’t, but if they do, I would certainly encourage you to report it.
You have been on here awhile and I think you deserve to be heard and heard respectfully and with empathy.
How was your weekend?
Not very good. Did you know that I haven’t been taking my pills for the last five months? But my doctors and family all think that I have been. I’m liar and I should cut out my tongue.
Sorry not so good. Same here.
I would think you are not taking the pills because they are unsafe or some other unwelcome effect. If so, when you tell family and doctor you are taking them, but are not, you are not harming them, but are protecting yourself from undue pressure to take them. I see no obvious transgression in that.
If your untruth was harming them, that would be deception, and that would be good cause for guilt. But this does not look to be the case.
What do think?