alright so I’ve known this person since we were kids, we were always considered “besties” because we would hang out and talk all the time, but the thing I’ve noticed about her is that sometimes she just says something so mean out of the blue?? like for no fucking reason she would insult me, and then be like jk, and we once had a fight because of this and she said that I was being dramatic, I stopped talking to her for a while until she apologized and we were “best friends” once again, but the comments never stopped, she always makes me feel so shitty about myself, if I list everything wrong with her I’d never stop, I hate her, I really do, and I have a feeling she does too, but I’m afraid that I’m overreacting and might end a friendship that lasted for a long time for nothing.
I actually do want to end this toxic friendship but idk how.. I see her every summer break and it’s just gonna be awkward as fuck when we meet, I’m lost honestly, I tried not talking to her as much because when I do I just end up getting hurt by one of her “jokes”
I mean we are still friends now only because its been so long since we’ve known each other, so it’s hard to find a way to end it now. I just want to know what those shitty comments mean.. maybe she always hated me and couldn’t stand me and I just never got the hint, I don’t really know.
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I had a bestfriend whom was just like this. Some days though she’d be very supportive. Other days it was like she hated me… like everything I did bothered her. Our friendship lasted about 5years but we apparently knew each other when we were younger too. After breaking the friendship she turned on me and really showed her true colors. She was greedy and materialistic and was only my friend for those things. She also started copying everything I did for example I like photography and she would always make rude faces anytime someone talked about my photography. People would say it looked so professional but then she would say it didn’t. And downgraded my work. She also used me for copying homework… and tests… and I always let her. After we stopped being friends she got into photography and I kid you not she tried copying my style of photography! Sometimes copying the same props and ideas! Lol i realized her problem wasn’t with me but that she was unhappy with herself and wanted to make me feel shittier than she felt herself. Turns out she was just confused about what sex she was attracted to! We still aren’t friends. Once a back stabbing *****, always a back stabbing *****.
yeah, I’ve been told before that she’s just insecure or maybe even jealous of me, good thing that you managed to get rid of a bad friend, wish I was brave enough to confront her tho, she says the most horrible things when we fight and it takes me ages to get over it.. not sure if I want to put myself through that.
Just dump that *****, not like you needed her or anything. Getting friends is as easy as hoarding dogs, just get more dogs and now you’d have a friend that wouldn’t talk shit about you and a friend that would actually respect you.
Im sure a dog would be way cuter than her, i’d bet my left kidney on it.
thank you, that made me smile, you’re 100% right, I’m gonna dump that *****