When I was 3, my father told me that I was the cause of all that was wrong in his life. It was my fault he was stuck married, and that we were poor, and so on.
He told me this often.
From as far back as I can remember, my mother was extremely violent. Beatings until blood flowed, black eyes, and so on. When she was done, she would lock me in the closet. Sometimes for days.
When she came to let me out, the sexual abuse was next.
Both parents were violent, but mom was the worst. My only way to deal was to black it all out. Completely. It never happened.
Until in my mid 30s it suddenly came back. All or it. Not just what was done to me, but what I did as well. My 4 younger siblings were my responsibility, and I was almost as bad as my mother. I beat and tortoured them. I raped my littlest sister. I was, and am, a completely horrible person.
My shrink says this is understandable, given how I was treated. But I don’t really believe that.
I hate myself. Just a horrible, deformed, piece of human shit that deserves nothing but death.
So, I’m going to take a massive overdose of insulin, and swallow a good handful of methadone. That should do just fine.
At last it will all be over, and I can rot in hell for all eternity.
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It doesn’t sound like who you were then is who you are now.
I always felt like I would be molested/ sexually assaulted until I either died or committed suicide. By some higher power or luck I had about 3 good years of my pre-teen/teen/adult life where I wasn’t abused!! Wow. Of course, it came back worse than before. I just wish I would have shot myself when I was 18!! Lol. But in all seriousness, right now I am doing ok, I’ve got to pay 12,000 on a car which might take a year and then hopefully will kill myself either gunshot to head or asphyxiation. I’ve started to tally up every time I am raped or molested and I’m at 182 since July 2016.
Although, I do want to just neglect paying the car and kill myself immediately. . . but I stay alive because I primarily enjoyed my life (when I am not being raped or harassed) … but after a lot of recent rape, if I did not feel like I was being followed, I would have killed myself either last year or the year before!!
Sadly, I believe I am being stalked by someone with contact with authorities, therefore, I am the perpetrator and can’t kill myself because they will follow me
It’s weird because I feel like they forced me to stay alive when I was going to kill myself at 18, just so they could rape me 5 years later??? I have no clue why they would force me to stay alive against my will and then rape me
Your childhood sounds horrific, one of the worst I’ve ever read about. The pain you endured should never have happened, you were but a child. If possible, try to forgive yourself for hurting your siblings. As children, we learn from and emulate our parents. If they taught you violence and molestation from such a young age, then that may have become normalized for you. Have you thought about apologizing to your siblings?
Also long history of multiple severe abuses. Sexual, physical, mental, emotional. Feel dead inside. Wish I was dead. Cannot numb the pain. I was disassociated / out of my body most of my childhood. One day I woke up from that and wished I was dead ever since.