I spent nearly all my savings on seeing my long distance relationship ex boyfriend, which was for 2 months.
He lives in the other side of the world, all in all it took me months to save up. He also saved up alot of money too…
He actually ended up in debt again because he spent so much. I ended up nearly broke, and I’m still broke.
whatever you do, don’t spend your savings on something like this, unless you plan to end it soon, perhaps. Again the relationship didn’t last, I feel like I just wasted my money for nothing. 🙁
Inb4 someone says that my ex is unappreciative, he already knows it himself.
Please don’t be like me. Just… please. And don’t be like him 😛
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Some people can chase building memories and relish them later. Other find even cherished memories end up being nothing more than regretful reminders of what we will never have. You can only do what you have to in the moment and what happens then is just a crap shoot. I guess it comes down to either feeling or being able to shove it down so deep it never rears its ugly head again. Nothing makes sense when pain prevails. Sadly, that is what makes us human.
Sadly I did the same thing but it wasn’t a LDR . Don’t feel alone , life and relationships are unpredictable.