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Woman can be difficult to read.. especially when us men say something stupid or out of character. Have you tried to sincerely apologize? Sometimes all a woman wants to hear is a sincere apology and to hear you admit you were wrong.

I don’t know your situation except you’re in a new city and know only one person.

You know what? The beauty of being new in any place is that you get to create/ re-invent yourself! If you are shy, then remember, every to you is a complete stranger, so they don’t really know how you are. One thing I have learned growing up is “fake it until you make it”. You might not feel confident, but you can pretend inside that you are. Sometimes if you pretend enough it you will develop a “character” that you can play when you’re not feeling so confident. The more you practice it the more it will work.

The thing about liking someone is you only think about that person. I know you said it’s platonic with your friend but you might have deeper feelings for her. I only think that because you cannot stop thinking about her.

If she is being distant it is giving you the opportunity to recreate your approach. Be patient, be smart, find your confidence. It takes time. Goodluck!