They don’t understand. The pain we are in, people don’t get it, fundamentally cannot understand. So even if they try to listen, you’re trying to explain ice hockey to a desert nomad, they don’t have the context to get it.
True as well, but they never been where they need it. So they simply can’t relate to it. It’s sad, really. They will only understand in when they will be in need of it.
i’d say
50% don’t care,
either cause they don’t even know the person exists,
or because the person’s existence [or non-existence] has no direct\major impact on their lives & they’re actually willing
to dismiss\ignore or, worse, consciously step-over
the possibility of the person seizing to exist because of their inaction
then
40%
are practically ‘incapable’ of understanding your problems &\or how You’re affected by these problems
possibly
9% are glad You have the problems or, at least, in some way, ‘benefit’ from You having them
& there’s finally the illusive tiny 1%
this could be literally 1 person
they care
*And*
they’re able to understand
the only tricky part is
the person has to actually know\find\identify them
*And*
most of the time
they could be unequipped
or practically incapable of actually helping the person
even when they want to
that’s one really bad thing in how we’re brought up i think
i think there’s barely any level of education anywhere in the world about
‘how’
to help others
psychologically, emotionally, & mentally
in their time of need
i think if that became part of kids’ curriculum up to, say, end of middle-school, or maybe even high-school, why not [it’s the Most Critical life-stage usually]
these percentages would be a whole lot different, to the better
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Truth is truth. They only listen when they want something. Unless true friends, but I’ll sooner hit a Jackpot in lottery than find one nowadays.
Sadly true
They don’t understand. The pain we are in, people don’t get it, fundamentally cannot understand. So even if they try to listen, you’re trying to explain ice hockey to a desert nomad, they don’t have the context to get it.
that’s one *really* good point there, i couldn’t have said it better!
Or more likely, most people just don’t care -_-
True as well, but they never been where they need it. So they simply can’t relate to it. It’s sad, really. They will only understand in when they will be in need of it.
People only will care if they see you as useful, if you aren’t useful to them they will throw you away.
Found a quote the other day:
80% don’t care about your problems
20% are glad that you have them.
i’d say
50% don’t care,
either cause they don’t even know the person exists,
or because the person’s existence [or non-existence] has no direct\major impact on their lives & they’re actually willing
to dismiss\ignore or, worse, consciously step-over
the possibility of the person seizing to exist because of their inaction
then
40%
are practically ‘incapable’ of understanding your problems &\or how You’re affected by these problems
possibly
9% are glad You have the problems or, at least, in some way, ‘benefit’ from You having them
& there’s finally the illusive tiny 1%
this could be literally 1 person
they care
*And*
they’re able to understand
the only tricky part is
the person has to actually know\find\identify them
*And*
most of the time
they could be unequipped
or practically incapable of actually helping the person
even when they want to
that’s one really bad thing in how we’re brought up i think
i think there’s barely any level of education anywhere in the world about
‘how’
to help others
psychologically, emotionally, & mentally
in their time of need
i think if that became part of kids’ curriculum up to, say, end of middle-school, or maybe even high-school, why not [it’s the Most Critical life-stage usually]
these percentages would be a whole lot different, to the better
: /
not to worry Virus.Found
We might not be the person(s) You need
but We’re all here with You in this
& We’re all listening
<3