Anger

well, lacking your input and insight;

Humans are classically reserved; we didn’t become the dominant species by being too standoffish. We get in there with each other, and this is why most healthy adults need a large friendbase to prevent abuse, and healthy relationships with those that choose to share a life.

Long way around to saying; we don’t like to admit that we are in over our head. It is pigheaded, and frustrating, but on average people are less than half prepared for what they are about to do. I would wager a bet that you’ve been hard on yourself. there’s definitely some shame issues in that mix. So, you’re basically running on fumes, using momentum from the healthy time of your life to get you through the bad times.

Us? We? We are those that have struggled to find that kind of economic assurance. Our reserves are overdrawn after being whittled away by jobs, relationships, life…. and now we sit here, at what can only be rock bottom if we start climbing out….

That’s my comfort for you; humanity on average is really lousy at what they do [of course that’s my standards…] Now don’t go taking offense just as I made a math metaphor; I don’t know about you dear reader, but you’ve made it this far and that makes you okay by me.

So what’s to be ashamed of? If you are hard on yourself and survive you’re ahead of the curve. I think that is worthy of some kindness from myself.