We’re at the store and i decided i want m&ms so i ran over to let him know. And someone held the door for me while i asked my husband to grab them for me. I feel horrible for not saying thank you. Im sure if i told you why i didnt youd understand…
I have anxiety and there were people in the store and people behind me and you so i was kind of zoned out just wanting to get out of there. Im sorry i didnt say thank you, i wanted to…
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Don’t give it a second thought. I’m sure they knew you were distracted and probably would’ve said thanks if you could’ve.
But people who do nice things for others (like me) do it out of courtesy and they’re usually pretty understanding.
If this website taught me anything-and I wish everyone could get the same understanding, is that you don’t know what the other person is going through at the time in their lives.
They could look confident, healthy, happy, but maybe they lost a loved one a short while ago, or are suffering through depression or anxiety (as you mentioned), so I usually give people the benefit of the doubt.
As I’ve gone through my own hellish situations in the past and had to put on a good face just to function in the world. So I personally try to be considerate of others and in most of my encounters with people in public, other people are usually nice too.
Also I’ve passed by strangers who were not so nice but I forgot about them a few seconds later…so I wouldn’t worry about it.
I should add there occasions I haven’t been too nice, like letting someone merge in my car lane when I should’ve and that’s because maybe I was having a bad day but it’s rare. Ofc I regret it after and feel guilty about it, but we’re not perfect and mistakes happen.
You’re decent. Decency is in short supply. Thanks for being decent.
Soda and Once, thank you 🙂
My husband was apparently talking to him in the store and he was nice so you’re right and he probably knows.