Valentines day
So i made a little bit of a grand gesture towards the girl i’ve been crushing on for like 3 months! I did mention that i liked her and would love to go out sometime, but it’s also complicated since we have a ”professional relationship” that makes going on a date an absolute no-go (the kind of no-go that would get you fired). Yet i’m pretty sure we’ve crossed the professional relationship boundary in some ways by being flirty, when enjoying each others company.
Well last week the day after Valentines day i decided to escalate things a bit further. When we were alone for a moment we drank some fresh ginger tea and talked about Valentines day and she mentioned that she treated herself to a spa day out. I then asked if she received a rose from the spa day centre and a little disappointed she said ”no i didn’t”.
So i figured this would be my perfect moment…i had already bought a rose knowing i’d see her the day after valentines day. I told her that i can do ”magic” and asked her to close her eyes…she wanted to sneak a peek, but i caught her and told her to keep her eyes closed haha. I grabbed the rose from my bag and told her to open her eyes and the surprised smile on her face was worth a million bucks. She loved it, said it was sweet and at the end of our little meet up she mentioned that she must be special since i don’t seem to treat her other female co-workers the way that i treat her. I gave her a cheeky smile as i sipped my tea 😉
I’m a bit nervous but excited as well to see where this is gonna go. She seems very much receptive to my flirting…i means it’s hard to mistake the gesture of a rose for valentines day as just friendly. I also serenaded her with a song on the guitar (twice!). You would think she would flat out reject my valentine gesture + the other flirtatious advances if she wanted to keep things professional…right?
What do you think?
7 comments
She likes you ?
I think it’d be no problem to ask her out and go out with her, so long as you two manage to keep it a secret from the rest of the company.
If it takes keeping a secret, then i can do that 🙂
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She certainly does seem to like you. Ask her out. Don’t go overboard with the guitar. It gets old fast.
I’ll try and see how i can make this work, since i don’t want to put her under pressure with her job.
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Dude! She totally likes you! Take things slow, and see how well you can get to know her. You’re in a pretty good position though. I was crushing on a girl as well, and she told me to message her with my phone number and she would get back to me. She never did. So, I’d say you are doing well. Be yourself, and treat her with respect.