can you be happy if you completely disregard people and how they influence you? can you be confident in living selfishly, without allowing the judgement of others to seep into your mind? i wish to be fearless.
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can you be happy if you completely disregard people and how they influence you? can you be confident in living selfishly, without allowing the judgement of others to seep into your mind? i wish to be fearless.
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I think it’s possible to develop aquired selective sociopathy, that is a directed sort of apathy and disaffectedness towards people who have shown themselves truly deserving of it. Cutting off everyone is a lot of work.
People judge me for what I am, but that doesn’t change it. It isn’t something they get to tell me to stop being, because I couldn’t even if I was remotely interested. I just had this fish slap in the face moment yesterday when I realized that I’m sure lots of people would consider me a hippie and a dropout, and despite that I feel no shame.
I’ve been down and out for so long in my life, I’m done apologizing for it. It can’t all be a reflection of my character. Eventually the eye of critique has to turn and look elsewhere but me.
That is how I advise to start living fearless; lay all your secrets bare, hold nothing back, and also tell any authority figure where they can shove their enquiry because you have honest business to perform. Make people earn your trust, stop advancing them credit.