when u meet someone start talking and we act like best friends and talk for hours and then all of a sudden rarely talk WTF i worry that i said something wrong or worry that somethings going on and they wont tell me. (not like it would be my business, i would just like to know) hmmm soo annoying makes me go crazy
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Perhaps they want to see if you really care or maybe they just need you to be patient . It sucks to be cut off .If you can don’t repeat it and do that to someone else…. we often tend to do things to people that they did / do to us consciously or subconsciously. … so the trick is to be aware of it and then let it go and not let their abandonment in…. somehow…
i have thought bout that. it just hurts that i put people before me i want someone to be comfortable to just tell me everything and when i meet someone and we talk daily every minute til we fall asleep than after a week it goes to silence and i have to find a reason to re-start the convo but that doesnt seem to work i’d explain this to the person i just dont wanna sound clingy, ugh guess i just wait.
Yeah, that sucks, I know.