This police officer has been harassing me since Freshman year. Here is a little bit of the back story. I was in CPS and in a all girl group home, I had visitation with my grandma and it was court approved, after going to school I went to my grandmas just as plan. The group home knew I had a over night visitation and yet they called me in as a runaway. my grandma called my Case worker and he told the group home to drop the Runaway charge. I went to school the following day and that police officer showed up because it was somehow still in the system that I was a runaway. he was a rude person. He said such cruel things to me because he didn’t believe I was telling the truth about me not being a runaway. He called me a “pathetic little girl for running away, you’re lucky I Don’t put you in Handcuffs and Take you away for life” “don’t be waisting your tears like you’re waisting my time”
Shortly after, my Grandma comes to my school and the officer starts disrespecting her (she’s 63 years old) she tells him Saying in a respectable way “Sir, she is not a Runaway they dropped the charges you have no right to judge a person, isn’t it innocent until proven guilty?”
The officer then raised his voice at her with threats. My case worker had to come to my school and again explain the situation that it was just a simple mistake on the grouphomes behalf. My grandma wrote down his badge # and reported him. But Nothing happen.
Ever since that incident, no matter where I was whether I was just walking home, or going to the boys and girls club he would be there.
I had went to a movie theater with my friends, by the time the movie was over it was only 2 Hours before curfew so my friends and I went to a pizza place, my grandmother knew where I was and I had the permission, he walked out of the pizza place and said he would be waiting for me when curfew was up to arrest me. I felt attacked, I was scared because no matter what, through all the good I was doing, I was being threatened by a person who had a badge.
Here is where is gets more complicated. I turned 18 and before then I was a runaway THAT TIME, my mom was the one who put it in my head to runaway to be with her and used it to her advantage to try to control me. Well now that I am 18, I was done with being her minion. I spoke up for myself,I have been living with my grandfather and he didn’t want my mom there but she was thrown out of her place and needed somewhere to go, she brought it upon herself to come to my grandpas and try to control everything when she was only supposed to be there for a few days.. This woman , the woman who made my life hell, was trying to tell me what to do, when she was never a mom to me to begin with and I was done. She got mad because I wouldn’t let her have my purse, and she grabbed it and tried to punch me, my boyfriend had to restrain her from attacking me, i went to call the cops becausw my grandpa told me to, she then went to call the police at the same time and changed the story so she wouldn’t get introuble, she’s a conniving liar and while I ran next door to call the police, she went into the elevator and went crazy pulling her own hair and scratching herself to make it look like i was thw one who hurt her. A police officer showed up and talked to me, my boyfriend, my grandpa and my neighbors and we all said the same thing that she is the antagonist that she’s of her meds, my grandpa told the officer , he didn’t want my mom back. The officer told me I wasn’t in trouble that she was,
But I needed to file a report. I follwed the officer down stairs and to my surprise there my mom was talking to the jerk officer who was always harassing me. He automatically tried to arrest me but failed because the other officer intervened and told him that he talked to witnesses and got everyone’s statements, that I was innocent and my mother needed to leave the property. The jerk officer tried to threaten me saying if he ever saw me that no matter if i was just walking or crossing a street that he will arrest me , he also tried arguing with the other officer but the other officer told the jerk officer that what he was doing and saying to me was illegal. He gave my mom 10 mins to get her stuff and leave the premises.
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I know this might be hard, but you’re 18 now. Perhaps try and save a little money and move interstate, where your Mom and others can’t give you any grief?
I moved in with my grandpa and he put me on his lease, my mom is Banned from this apartment. She came over here cause no one wants her around cuz she wants to be in control, My grandpa dont want her here and she just invited her self here , Now she punched my face cause I told her not to go through my belongings. she Will Always Find me
Since when he’s acting as an officer when he does these thing aka he’s on the job, you can’t put a restraining order on him. You CAN however, talk to their supervisor about it. Try and get a voice recording or video evidence. However you CAN sue them. Just make sure you have concrete evidence, and witnesses besides family members, like the other cop. And make sure you have a good lawyer lol.
You CAN DEFINITELY put a restraining order on your mom. Or just get her arrested for abuse.
If she comes near you, call the cops in your area.