Hi. My name is Nemmy. Im 12. Soon to be 13 on August 14. Anyway, I’ve been wanting to commit suicide a lot lately. My my boyfriend and 3 friends have been stopping me. The one and only reason i want to die, is because im cyber bullied. A girl on facebook has been bullying me since i met her. Im dating her boyfriend. But, its not like we were bestfriends and i just took her boyfriend. I dont do that. Anyway, She has been calling me a lot of bad things. Im not going to name them. Sorry.. I want to commit suicide so bad. But, Im just scared about my family. And the pain they will have to go through. Im not someone who just wants attention. Im kind of half and half about the whole suicide thing. I want the pain to stop.
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Everyone deals with pain . and trust me Nemmy. so many people care about you . think of your friends the people in your everyday life your boyfriend and your parents ! Try talking this out with someone or make the issue stop by blocking this chick from fb . or report the bullying . your not asking for attention your asking for serious help . suicide is not a joke and it needs to be dealt with fast . im your age aswell. im 13 turning 14 and i get bullyed alot . remember this is also junior high, were teenagers.. you have your whole life ahead of you . please keep smiling i promise you will see through this !
That girl is lame..its not like you guys were besties so she just needs to get over it and move on. She’s only harrassing you in hopes it will break you down and then she can reclaim her territory with the boy. Block her on facebook, shes toxic..once you have blocked her she will realize you arent seeing what she is saying and will quit. If your concerned about what shes going to do when you go back to school….turn it in to a teacher immedeatley, schools are way more equiped to handle this cyber/bullying thing these days. You shouldnt have to feel like crap because your dating someone she use to.
She’s just a jealous inconsiderate *****. If some other girl would have dated him after her, she would probably bully her too. Block her. Block her on any account you have. And as for school, like butterflyfly said, confront a teacher. Cyber-bullying is a serious issue so they will help.
ok – I’m gonna play devil’s advocate here – you … TOOK … H E R … boyfriend and you expect her to just roll over and let it happen? did it ever occur to you that SHE might … i don’t know … maybe … be IN LOVE with him?
there’s kind of a old unwritten rule of honor when it comes to relationships amongst friends (at any level) … if you don’t have permission from the aggrieved party (the girl who’s boy you stole) … you are the proverbial “homewrecker” … in other words, you STOLE him from her without ANY regard for her feelings for your own selfish pleasure … and now you are catching the wrath of the “woman scorned”
in simpler terms – you did her wrong – and now she is mad and hurt
but hey, what does an old dawg know
honor dawg
I didnt try to take her bf. I didnt even know she existed until she added me. Im not selfish.. You just dont understand..
She has a new bf.
Idk why she just cant get over it.
Dawg, for the first time, you are wrong D:
False dawg
if someone comes in my house and steals my TV … just because I go out and buy a new one doesn’t mean I’m “over” the fact that my old TV was stolen … not sure what there is to “understand”
if you ‘didn’t know she existed” before you started dating her bf then you BF is a lying scuzz bag
like I said – what does an old fool like me know about such things
geezer dawg
@kali – if i’m wrong – it’s not the first time … and most certainly won’t be the last
c’est la vie
if true then dawg
Sounds like your BF didn’t break up properly with his ex. Either way, you’re not the one to blame for this, he is. If he’s done this to his ex, what’s to say he won’t do the same thing to you? He’s not worth the bother, I’d dump him and then tell the ex she can have him back.
Another thing … you’re 12. If this is the worst thing to ever happen to you, then you’re doing OK. Have a read of some of the other posts on here where girls your age are being regularly beaten, raped or molested and then come back to us and tell us how much you want to die.
And if it’s cyberbullying, you could … oh, I dunno … quit Facebook? Or just lay low for a while. I was 12 once and I didn’t need any Facebook.
Sorry if this sounds a little harsh, and whilst it might feel horrible right now, I can promise you that things WILL get better. As someone that felt like crap when they were 12, all I can say is hang in there.
All the best.
She dumped him tho!
Honey you are young and I’m sure beautiful. Kids and adults are always going to blame you for things that are not going well in their life. It makes them feel better about themselves to pick on and harrass others. I was picked on in jr. high when I was your age. I was a good girl, smart and pretty. People just can’t stand to see someone doing well. In time she will get over feelings about this boy and move on. You may even move on from this boy and someone else will date him and she’ll harrass them too! You have so much life ahead of you. Don’t let your first love set the stage for the rest of your life. I think of my daughter when I think of you. It would tear me to pieces if she hurt herself cause of what your going through. I may have some personal problems in my own adult life, but I want to incourage you, a young person to go on in life and do well. Go to school, go to college, get the career that you dream of, get married have children of your own and leave these negative feelings far behind you.
Thats just jealousy babygirl!!! Dont kill yourself over immature insecure bullies!!! Your life is worth more than that!! Block her on facebook!! I know its not as easy as just ignore her and wont say that because Im not going to belittle your pain! I know it hurts and its hard but just hang on!!!! You have so much life ahead of you please dont let this girl steal that from you!!! Keep your head up