I’m sick of doing so much shit for everyone around me and getting nothing in return. I’m nice as can be 24/7, even to people I can’t stand, and all I get back is, you got it, NOTHING. That or they treat me even worse. I’m just tired. What’s the point? Why bother being nice to people who are just going to screw you over, ignore you, stab you in the back, and treat you like trash? Not to mention I’m ALWAYS the third wheel. I pay for everything when I can, I treat everyone like freaking royalty and I’m starting to think they don’t deserve it. What am I doing wrong? )’:
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u r doing nothing wrong! im just like u! its everyone ELSE. some people can be selfish idiots.
You’re doing nothing wrong whatsoever. You’re doing more good than necessary, actually. You just need to stop doing shit for people who don’t appreciate you. You deserve better and it seems like you already know that.
Well what am I doing wrong to make them walk all over me? :/
You’re being too soft, make your feelings clear to them.
When you do things for people the very least you should expect is appreciation
@kathrrryn: being there all the time..it isnt wrong im the same way but its what people expect they except u to do everything cuz for a while u have
If you treat everyone like royalty all the time, then eventually, you will get taken advantage of. It’s just up to you to stand your ground.
Yeah, I guess you guys are right, but it’s kind of sad that you can be “TOO” nice. That if you give people your all, they take advantage of you instead of appreciating you. What a world we live in, eh?
Yes, this world sucks camel balls. But we need more people like you. Not to be taken advantage of, but to be nice and generous. It’s not sad at all. It’s sad and pathetic on their part. Just know that you’re doing NOTHING wrong, hun<3
Thank you.
Well it’s hard to get out from “your situation”. I am speaking from those selfish idiots side. So I am not like that anymore, but I have a little story. When we were kids, obviously immature and cruel. We had this one classmate which was our friend too. But we abused his kindness, we made fun of him, and told things to do. As he want to be a part of us he did what he asked and he was nice. Of course in a year or so he got raged about it just like you. He began refusing stuff to do, but eventually he did what he was asked, cause he was still being a nice person. SO you see even he didn’t wanted, he still had to do it, because we were inside his head already.
So we changed, he changed too. And the lesson for you to learn is to not bother what other people say about you. Like if you don’t do that or that, or if you don’t act like that you are some kind of a bad person? fuck no. You can’t be a friend of all. So get them outside your head as soon as possible and just be polite, but treat with all your kindness only real friends, cause others just gonna take advantage of this.
me too…..