dear anyone who would like to read this
today i went to school, and as usual, was tired cause it was a monday and feel a bit timid towards others. though, as a part of the yearbook, i was required to talk to or introduce myself to 6 students whom i was going to take pictures of. today, one of those students, a girl, was one of them, came to school. almost everytime i tried to talk to her, just to see if she was doing okay in school, (is new) she wouldn’t notice me, or i was interrupt by people tht needed to talk to me.
when i did have my first chance, i said hi very loud and clear right beside her. But she didn’t even turn to see me.
so maybe it was crowded and nosiey, but i spoke decently for someone to hear it.
the second time i came to the cafertia and lined up to the sandwhich stand. She was there again, and though i tried to build a conversation with her and her campanion, she didn’t seem interested in talking me. Even though we both met a few times, it seemed she wasn’t comfortable.
was i a bit too much willingly trying to talk to her? i just try to talk to her just so she can feel a bit more comfortable talking to people at the school. I feel extremely weird when i see girls extremely alone and shy.
do i seem like a stalker? is it possible she doesn’t want to talk to me? please help me see myself.
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Dude there is nothing wrong with you. You just have a big heart and you just wanted to make her feel welcome. Theres nothing wrong with that. If anything you are very caring. Im afraid if she cant see that its her loss 🙂 hope i helped :/
It sounds like she doesn’t want to talk to you. Best to just leave her alone. Also wondering if you have aspergers or if you’ve ever been checked for this?
Maby its “that time of the month”
the corrs.?
no, i’ve never heard of this type of disease, but i actually recall my parents saying something about me being short tongued…and if i u think i rly shud have a checkup let me know
Nope, I doubt it’s a disease.
It’s just practice; you and this girl are practicing the art of socialization, which becomes a big deal once you reach puberty.
A big part of school, from about grade 6 or 7 is socialization and your doing just fine. Don’t read to much into other kids reactions to you.
Remember they are just learning too!
possible she doesn’t want to know, but maybe she’s shy’ish, don’t assume anything yet , have a couple more goes, boy meets girl is an ongoing lesson in life, rarely goes smooth, you never master it, just have a couple more goes…..be patient, you’ll suss out the vibe eventually..hope this helps
Glass breaker, it’s not really a disease… It’s like a condition that makes it hard for some people to ‘read’ other peoples body language. Some people literally can’t read facial expressions, can’t analyse other peoples. Some people just develop in a different way and perceive the world in a different way to the majority. The reason I ask is because u seem to have no clue as to how she sees you or how she might feel towards you, which is unusual. Most people would have a sense. It’s important to be able to identify other peoples boundaries and comfort zones. If you don’t, you’ll end up making them uncomfortable without even realising it. It’s worthwhile looking around at other people – can you empathise with them? Can you tell whe. They are uncomfortable? If not it might be worth talking to your parents
for everyone who has replied to this, thanx for letting me know what the insights this situation has. i’m grateful for everyone letting me know what i should do
Out of interest what are u going to do?
i’m just gonna leave her be for a while, i’ll talk to her when i need too, or be there whenever she wants to talk to me. sooner or later i will need to talk to her