I have had an abortion. If that is your best option, be sure to have a therapist to talk to about it. It’s a very hard decision to make. I wish I had a therapist back then, but my mom thought it unnecessary and my insurance was through her since I was still in high school. I still pay for that choice 15 years later.
Have you considered adoption? I know that’s a hard choice too, better in some ways and worse in others. You can liver through this with support.
Were you in a bad place before or is it just from being pregnant ? If you wern’t doing good before then it will eat you up inside, it will make every thing worse. Maybe consider adoption ? Or open adoption? Then your child will get a good life and you can she it when you set up a day. That way you know it’s going to a good place and you can choose to keep in contact or not. And no one deserves to die.
Were you in a bad place before or is it just from being pregnant ? If you wern’t doing good before then it will eat you up inside, it will make every thing worse. Maybe consider adoption ? Or open adoption? Then your child will get a good life and you can she it when you set up a day. That way you know it’s going to a good place and you can choose to keep in contact or not. And no one deserves to die.
No actually I was in a great place before becoming pregnant and not depressed. I’m still not depressed I just feel very anxious and stressed to the point I feel I have completely fucked up my life. I don’t know if I can go thru with adoption, this is my first child I think I am going to keep it and get my tubes tied.
I remember you Brit although I don’t think we ever spoke. This is a decision only you can make. As long as you feel you can adequately provide the child with everything it needs, do what feels right. Either way, don’t knock yourself, don’t feel guilty for not being ready if you have to go through with it.
I remember you to. Thanks for your comment but I think I need to woman up and do the right thing. I just feel I can’t go thru with such a cruel and disgusting act. I just don’t want another baby as long as I live.
Only you can answer that. For me it wasn’t the right choice, but one I made to please another. It didn’t please her though…so be sure this is what you want for you.
I don’t think I can go thru with it, its immoral and against my beliefs plus its a very scary thing. I think I’m going to keep the baby and consider adoption but most likely I’m going to just keep the baby as my own and have my tubes tied.
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I have had an abortion. If that is your best option, be sure to have a therapist to talk to about it. It’s a very hard decision to make. I wish I had a therapist back then, but my mom thought it unnecessary and my insurance was through her since I was still in high school. I still pay for that choice 15 years later.
Have you considered adoption? I know that’s a hard choice too, better in some ways and worse in others. You can liver through this with support.
Do you think if I decide to go through with the abortion I will regret it?
Were you in a bad place before or is it just from being pregnant ? If you wern’t doing good before then it will eat you up inside, it will make every thing worse. Maybe consider adoption ? Or open adoption? Then your child will get a good life and you can she it when you set up a day. That way you know it’s going to a good place and you can choose to keep in contact or not. And no one deserves to die.
Were you in a bad place before or is it just from being pregnant ? If you wern’t doing good before then it will eat you up inside, it will make every thing worse. Maybe consider adoption ? Or open adoption? Then your child will get a good life and you can she it when you set up a day. That way you know it’s going to a good place and you can choose to keep in contact or not. And no one deserves to die.
No actually I was in a great place before becoming pregnant and not depressed. I’m still not depressed I just feel very anxious and stressed to the point I feel I have completely fucked up my life. I don’t know if I can go thru with adoption, this is my first child I think I am going to keep it and get my tubes tied.
I remember you Brit although I don’t think we ever spoke. This is a decision only you can make. As long as you feel you can adequately provide the child with everything it needs, do what feels right. Either way, don’t knock yourself, don’t feel guilty for not being ready if you have to go through with it.
I remember you to. Thanks for your comment but I think I need to woman up and do the right thing. I just feel I can’t go thru with such a cruel and disgusting act. I just don’t want another baby as long as I live.
Only you can answer that. For me it wasn’t the right choice, but one I made to please another. It didn’t please her though…so be sure this is what you want for you.
I don’t think I can go thru with it, its immoral and against my beliefs plus its a very scary thing. I think I’m going to keep the baby and consider adoption but most likely I’m going to just keep the baby as my own and have my tubes tied.