Well, I was wondering who of you guys is ever been bullied. So if you please would answer the following questions, thank you.
The questions:
1). Have you ever been bullied or been a bully, or both?
2). For how long have you been bullied?
3). What kind of bullying was it? (think about physical, emotional, abusing you or calling you names, follow you, ignore you, and so on)
4). What was the worst thing that ever happened when you were bullied?
Feel free to say anything else you want or to answer not all the questions.
My answers to the questions:
1). I’ve been bullied, but I never been a bully, for so far I know.
2). I’ve been bullied for more than 12 years now (I’m 16, almost 17) and it’s still going on.
3). Well, actually everything that is said in the question as example and more. So physical, emotional, abusing me and calling me names, follow me after school, ignore me, hitting and kicking me, beating me up, screaming my name and abusewords in front of my house, and more.
4). The physically bullying, that no one believed me, and calling me fat.
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1. I’ve been bullied so many times.
-One time, I had a group of “friends” circling me on their bikes when I was 9 years old, throwing glass at me and telling me to kill myself.
-Another time, I was slammed against a brick wall in high school by a girl that was supposed to be my best friend, all because she was jealous that my textbook cover was prettier than hers was.
-Yet another time, another “friend” of mine told me to close my eyes and crammed a piece of lettuce in my mouth that she found off of the cafeteria floor while all of my other “friends” sat there watching and laughing.
-There were many other times when I was bullied about how much I ate, how little I ate, when I ate, where I ate, and literally – HOW I ate. Which of course, led to eating disorders.
-Just last night my fiance told me that I’m stupid, ridiculous, not wife material, and that my worst enemy is better than I am. When trying to talk to some people on another site about it, they all told me that I was being childish and pretty much cyberbullied me about it.
2. All of my life.
3. I’ve been to what I feel is almost all ends of the bullying spectrum. I’ve been raped and tortured before. I was bound by all kinds of things like duct tape, wires, ropes, handcuffs…and had things thrown at me because he wanted to “see if it hurt me worse than it hurt him”. Then he begged me to squeeze his balls and threatened things if I didn’t.
4. I’m not sure. It all hurt so much…and during all of those moments I felt like it was all the worst.
1) I’ve been bullied to the point where I wanted to end my life.
2) Depends (seeing how i’m quite sensitive) but i’d say 4 ish years (not consecutively)
3) I’ve experienced all forms of bullying. Name calling, hitting, punching, physical, mental, abuse, harassment, sexual harassment, etc. (some stole things from me, ruined my possessions, one choked me, some chased me, etc.)
4) Being bullied ruins my reputation. Not that i care about reputation, it’s just once i’m bullied, i become a sort of a “target” for anyone else that needs someone to “pick on”.
I was vague throughout my entire comment, so i apologize about that.
4) Hair was set on fire.
But fuck them, they’re failures.
1) I don’t ever think I was a bully. If I was ever mean to someone it was as a response to something bad they did, and I don’t even engage in conversation that mocks someone, even if it is just joking around. I suppose I have been bullied, yes, but nobody would recognise it as it was never really physical against me (yet).
2) Pretty much all my life.
3) Its never really physical. My relationship with my dad could get to that though. My parents use me and manipulate me, they stop me doing what I want it most circumstances, And they control many aspects of my life. People at college speak bad about me behind my back, and they verbally abuse me in front of me too… I’ve ignored and had absolutely no friends for the past 8/9 years. I felt so alone. It messed me up bad. So, lots of abuse, name calling, ignoring, emotional bullying I suppose.
4) Having someone blame me for no reason that if someone else dies, it’s my fault and I encouraged them, when really I became their friend and do not want them to die. But no, apparently I want others to die when I could’ve just lost my love to this. It sickens me what people will accuse others of.
1) I have been bullied, cant remember when was the first time. I dont think i bullyed anyone.
2) since childhood to late teens. i started to rebel, against the bullies, against people in general, against society and any of its ‘right’ ways.
3) any type of abuse i guess from physical to psychological, and sexual, emotional, stalking, ignoring, idk. If people talk about me in my back i wouldnt know and i dont care really.
4) Using the abuse to brainwash me, empty me, a mix of safety, confort and torture, where all that was given was taken away then give back again and so forth, and feeling like a prisioner.
1). I have been bullied
2). since the age of 7 i can remember my first incident and it has never stopped and im now 19.
3). What kind of bullying was it? It was emtional, physcial, name calling, following me home and shouting abuse at me and then i got home and my step dad shouted abuse at me, i was threatened to be beaten up, i was beaten up twice, ive been cornered in toilets and spat at, ive had people ignor me, pretend i dont exists mock me infront of the entire class and once a school hallway infront of different years. Ive been rejected and exluded from friendship groups and team work in school.
4). just hating myself and still feeling that hate, and believing and thinking everything that they have ever said to me and letting them ruin my life and self worth.
Yea i ve being bullied before.at one time all the boys in my class just started slapping me all at once.i am sori but i dnt want to remember that day
1). Yes, I used to be bullied in school sometimes
2). Hmm…12 years? Not constantly though, and less in my last 2 years of high school
3). Some physical, but mostly name calling and being teased (in a mean way, not good-natured teasing that friends do; it was easy to make me cry and I guess that’s what bullies get off on)
4). I honestly don’t remember a lot of specifics. Physically, getting pushed down in the gutter. As for mental…one incident stands out — I still remember some older boys coming up to me when I was walking to school (at age 5 or 6) and showing me some smutty magazine centerfold and telling me it was my mom. I was confused because it didn’t look anything like my mom and I wondered why they thought she was my mom. They didn’t do anything to me but I was afraid of them when I realized they were being mean. And I was afraid of walking to/from school but my mom didn’t care, said I had to toughen up.
1) I was bullied in grade 7 and grade 8. I was never a bully.
2) 2 years
3) It was physical and involved name calling. I got chased sometimes during recess and I got punched and headlocked etc. It wasn’t bad enough to leave marks or draw blood thankfully, but I did live in fear for my last 2 years of elementary school.
4) The worst part was living in fear of being attacked.
Fortunately, the bullying stopped when I started high school and I didn’t become suicidal, but I think I suffered from mild depression during those two years. Bullying hasn’t ruined my life, but it has made me hyper aware and worried that something bad may happen. For example, I bought guns in case of home invasion.
1. yes I was bullied for my sexual orientation and being so different and who my only friend was.
2. 4 years in high school
3. I had It very easy compared to most. I was ignored a lot and lots of name calling. they probably would have done worse if it wasn’t for my sister and the fact they knew I wasn’t afraid to fight back.
4. the worst that I ever went through was when I was protecting my friend from the things they were throwing at her. pens, paper balls, a few books how did the teachers no see? did they really not care? or are we really that invisable?
Been bullied I don’t know if I’ve bullied someone else, I may have lahed out a few times.
3 years all of middle school continuously. Lost all my friends and never got them back.
Someone grabbed my chest from behind while I was in a chair and painfully dragged me across the room. Teacher was in the same room.
In response to (tears to shed) I think a lot of teachers used to be bullies themselves and wanted to return to when they had power, so the became teachers
To all of you guys, it must be really hard for all of you. I know how much bullying can do. I wish there was more atention to bullying and the consequences of it. You know, every day lots of people are bullied, and even more are dealing with the consequences of bullying. All of you do that. All of you are dealing with the consequences of the bullying you all went through. Also some of you are still being bullied every day. I’m really shocked that so many people are victims of bullying for their whole live and that there’s so many attention for it. Like it’s a taboo, and it’s okay being bullied or being a bully and that if the bullying stops that you are not a victim anymore. But they don’t realize that you will always be a victim of bullying and that you have to deal with the consequences every single day, and those consequences are really serious. Please, sweethearts, stay strong, keep fighting and f*ck those stupid bullies!! I love you all <3 , though I don't know you all.
I have never been bullied since I came from a country in which bullying is not rampant, and in which bullies are being looked down by everyone. However I came here just to tell everyone of you to BE STRONG! Do not ever think of suicide because that is never an answer to any problem. Invest your life to people who loves you dearly. To your family, to your parents who worked hard just to sustain your needs. They might have not been giving you all your needs but the fact that until now you’re still alive is something to be appreciated and valued. You, victim, you’re not the loser. Losers are those bullies out there, why? Because they do not know what compassion is, they do not know what right conduct is, they do not know what good manners is, and that is a SHAME!
The feeling that you’re being bullied might really be terrible but do not let it get in your head, STAND on your ground because the more you look sorry – the more you will be bullied. Stay strong! 🙂
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