Hmmm… you told him you don’t wanna talk to him now… or that you won’t talk to him anymore because he’s in love with you? Try texting him or call him. If he REALLY LOVES YOU, he won’t do anything, Sam! And IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT if he does anything! He doesn’t have the right to emotionally blackmail you… especially if “he loves you”! Please don’t do anything rush, love!
Many people have suicidal ideation when they are rejected. He’ll get over you in time, but if you really think he’s serious call his parents. He’s just hurting right now and to punish you he’ll tell you it’s your fault. I don’t know anything about your relationship with him, but as a general guideline, you can’t blame yourself just because you aren’t in love with him.
He probably won’t do anything, but still it’s good to notify his folks, or at least try to contact him. If you can get a hold of him to confirm his level of intent, that would be best. Talk to him first and tell him that unless he seeks support from his loved ones right now and tells them everything, that you’ll tell them yourself.
Psych wards and cops are the last resort, not the first. If he’s unwilling to tell his parents that he’s feeling suicidal about you, then you should tell them.
it’s all okay now he’s not gonna kill himself. I realized why I don’t make friends things like this makes me sick makes me feel like I can’t breathe I care a little to much about people.
7 comments
Please talk to me, Sam! What happened?
He told me he loved with me and I just told him that I can’t talk to anymore. He told me bye and that he’s gonna kill himself. It’s my fault he said.
Hmmm… you told him you don’t wanna talk to him now… or that you won’t talk to him anymore because he’s in love with you? Try texting him or call him. If he REALLY LOVES YOU, he won’t do anything, Sam! And IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT if he does anything! He doesn’t have the right to emotionally blackmail you… especially if “he loves you”! Please don’t do anything rush, love!
Many people have suicidal ideation when they are rejected. He’ll get over you in time, but if you really think he’s serious call his parents. He’s just hurting right now and to punish you he’ll tell you it’s your fault. I don’t know anything about your relationship with him, but as a general guideline, you can’t blame yourself just because you aren’t in love with him.
He probably won’t do anything, but still it’s good to notify his folks, or at least try to contact him. If you can get a hold of him to confirm his level of intent, that would be best. Talk to him first and tell him that unless he seeks support from his loved ones right now and tells them everything, that you’ll tell them yourself.
Psych wards and cops are the last resort, not the first. If he’s unwilling to tell his parents that he’s feeling suicidal about you, then you should tell them.
it’s all okay now he’s not gonna kill himself. I realized why I don’t make friends things like this makes me sick makes me feel like I can’t breathe I care a little to much about people.
Thanks guys. I finally calmed down enough to breathe.
Glad to hear you’re both ok.