Why are we here? All I have seen that life is as a heaven as much as a hell. Why are we here? I have seen good, but view hate and sadness much more. Why are we here? For some, they in happiness over other. Other live to stay alive. Why are we here? I want to know! Why are we here?
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I have sat with a lot of people at the end of their life, they don’t ever talk about the times they suffered, but all of the times that they were happy. They wanted to make a positive difference in the world, and in many ways they did. I see the hatred and ugliness in the world and it breaks my heart, but I don’t want to hurt myself anymore, I just want to do my little parts to make the world a better place. I always ask people…. what have you done today to make the world a better place? Happy Easter.
to make the best of it. so that even if you feel pain and sadness you can still feel happiness (if only fleetingly). happiness is what its all about. its what makes it worthwhile. if you don’t have that then you don’t have much.
I think the mistake people make is to search for some hidden grand purpose to our lives. When the answer is much more simpler and more obvious. We’re here because two people had sex and gave birth to us. Then we got stuck with whatever baggage those people carried around.
There’s things I like about life and there’s things I really hate. Unfortunately I am caught in the middle which I think is worse than being in either camp. If I loved life, I wouldn’t be on this site. If I fully hated my life-the answer would be easy, to find a way to end it.
In my case there are good things about like that keep me going but at the same time there’s much I despise and wish I could just give up, walk away from it all. I know I’d hurt my family if I made the decision to end it-but we all live and die alone and must choose our own path in life and death.
I can’t get over some of the dumb mistakes I’ve made or passing up on golden opportunities. I’m not living for much except to incrementally improve my lot in life. I used to be more attractive and used to date very attractive girls-now I can’t settle for less but beautiful girls don’t really notice me anymore.
I know I’ll look better when I’m back in shape (I’m about 30 lbs overweight now), but working out is very hard and I don’t have time because my life is so busy so I’m stuck looking the same year after year-but I’m going to make extra effort this year. Otherwise I’ll just end up feeling miserable, depressed and alone. Everyone around me is dating or married-except me. I don’t feel as suicidal as I used to but I still hate my life-at least at the present state.
I’ve learned to think in terms of years now when it comes to making changes-like I know it’ll take a year for me to get fit again. Anyways, good luck in whatever you’re doing. I hope this year is better for all of us.