I don’t know how to solve the problem of what to do when we believe that another person is tormenting us. It’s a tough nut. So far, I’ve tried to make my own peace not depend on what other people do. It’s not easy, especially if the other person is a core relative. But I guess it can be like choosing between a lifeboat or a sinking ship.
You’ve grasped a basic concept about suicide: It is selfish. Not that that would matter once you’re dead, but it’s still a decision that hurts those who are close to you. And it’s probably the only thing that has kept me alive for the last months.
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I don’t know how to solve the problem of what to do when we believe that another person is tormenting us. It’s a tough nut. So far, I’ve tried to make my own peace not depend on what other people do. It’s not easy, especially if the other person is a core relative. But I guess it can be like choosing between a lifeboat or a sinking ship.
I hope things go well for you.
You’ve grasped a basic concept about suicide: It is selfish. Not that that would matter once you’re dead, but it’s still a decision that hurts those who are close to you. And it’s probably the only thing that has kept me alive for the last months.