I really don’t want any of you guys to feel sorry for me I just really need to vent about the way I’m feeling right now. I’m 18, I have people I can call friends but none I can have a real conversation with. At one point of this year I was able to call the girl of my dream my gf. Now I lost her and really dont know what to do. I know people would say she’s just another but she is not, not to me. Daina I know that most likely you won’t see this but I need you I really do. I need one more chance, I know I am a man and that I shouldn’t beg for anything but I have. How does god except you to believe in him when he gives you stuff that makes you happy then takes it away.
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I dont think your problem is stupid. I understand you are in love and the girl you love is special to you. I will just say that if she does not stay with you, she is the one who is not worthy of you. When you are older, you will understand this. Your heart will no longer open to those who cannot protect it.
Thanks for the advice but I dont think I will open my heart for anyone else when she leaves me
You’re not in love with Dania, you’re in love with the idea of her, because if you really knew her and understood her, you’d realize she’s not the person you’ve dreamed her up to be in your head.
Love is an illusion. One time I was in love with this girl in grade school, nothing she seemed to do could be wrong, everything she said was witty and charming, she was very popular, etc, etc….she liked me but I found out she also liked my friend and that’s when I lost all interest in her.
Also I used to think like you-thought I’d met the perfect girl and when we broke up I felt I’d never find someone more beautiful and have a better connection, yet I always did. There’s some breathtakingly beautiful girls out there-hard to find but awesome if you can get them.
Anyways, I’ve been where you are now and I know it seems like no one else can understand but no offense you’re not unique nor is your experience. Once you finally get over her, you’ll realize I was right. Find a better girl to pine over. For me-I think I hear the bagpipes and I probably need to fade into the sunset, but still hoping I’ll find one more beautiful girl who’ll fall for me.
I’m glad you cared enough to give me your advice but I dont love daina just on looks or the idea of her. I love her for her. I dont want any breathtakingly beautiful female I want her. And I do know my situation isn’t unique but its still a problem