So i was enjoying myself single for the first time in five years and forntje for time ever I was able to change out with the girls not caring about serving cleaning looking good impersing some one ..but in turn into a night of people telling me to just go back to my ex . my family are apparently holding me hostage. So when I bring up my ex’s girl friend while where married no one believes me. They just look at me as a ungrateful little girl and like I’m dirt because I dint stay for the abuse . on top of no one caring if I am mentally ok no one cares just about good gossip . i want to cry but I can’t there is still a lot of people here.
No one knows my story it’s like I can say that I was cutting myself and he did not care . his problem was how can I hurt him and his family when I told him I am rally not ok at all and in would kill myself there .
The worst part is these people ask me what were there complaint and. I cant them answer . was I dirty I had no respect I don’t make money didn’t care for there son cheated ….these so. So these called family laughed and said no that was n9f there complaint …….they wanted to say there problem was I am suicidal. But they won’t dare say it to my face .
But i’t didn’t look like I was suicidal bez8Dr being a notch all night I smiled and acted happy made friends so no they can’t say I look suicidal.
My parents are holding me captive was not abuse I went along with for a year.
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Sometimes others understanding is limited to experiences that they can relate to. They are simply not able to see a perspective that isn’t their own.
Your perspective is valid and doesn’t require validation from a minority regardless of who they are.
I know it’s a shit feeling when we want those who we care for to see our side but they can’t.
It does not diminish the importance of how you feel and why.
Ur a gay female?? I thought yu was a guy this whole time smfh
@Iwantpeace2. I’m a straight girl but this made me really laugh.