Feeling Positive

Hi Guys 🙂

I am going thru a rough phase.

But right now I’m feeling more better than little bit better.

And the credit goes to… playdead4fun

Yeah Right. That’s a refreshing post for me
Something hit me hard. Specially that sentence.
This one : “Things are better not because they really are better but because I decided that things and people won’t keep affecting me as they were”.

Everyone needs to analysis thier situation. Put more real efforts instead of beating about the bush.
I’m not judging anyone here when I said, “beating about the bush”.
Well It’s okay. That’s the part of therapy too. We need to get that (things that make you sad) out of our system. I often do it myself. But after a while we have to get up on our feet. We have to put real efforts.
Thanks to “playdead4fun”..
He/she made me think again.

This line really hit me, “Things are better not because they really are better but because I decided that things and people won’t keep affecting me as they were”.

I did know this for a very long time.

It’s all about reactions. Things are like, they are.
We over react on thing and make them bigger than they were.
We are already depressed. We need so much positive shits and efforts to make things right. We need zero negativity.
But what we do when we react on small situations. We actually fuel the negativity and make it storger than it was.

Things are like, they are.

For past few days I am giving advice to someone about something. I told him that he made comfort with his situation. He is doing nothing. He is okay with whatever is happening. He is okay with his negeligence towards important issues.
And… I think, this applies for me as well.

I also made comfort with my situation. I’m doing nothing. I just spend my whole day lying on my bed and think all the negative shits I can think.

But thanks to playdead4fun.
He made me think about the elephant in the room.
Well, I was thinking about the elephant but I wasn’t doing anything but after reading something positive. I feel about action.

Yes, Action. Actions do matter.
Thinking about something positive and life changing is good.
But there is something much better. ‘ACTIONS’.
We should take actions also.
So,
I myself too decide not to ruin my mood over petty issues.
I will do the things I should do, instead of whining about them.

I hope everyone else feel positive after reading playdead4fun’s post.
And do something positive that should have been done already.

Thanks for reading guys. 🙂

Have A Nice Life Ahead. 🙂