you know, it’s real easy for people to say just ” get over it ” you can’t just get over it. When you have been through what I have, seen the things I’ve seen, even heard the things I’ve heard. Suffered at all, you would get it. You would fucking get it and maybe it would make any kind of sense. It hurts, I’m in so much pain. I’m sick and tired of waking up acting like everything is okay. When it isn’t and it never will be. All I ask for is to be free and that isn’t possible.
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I completely understand how frustrating and degrading it is when others say such ignorant things like “get over it” or “just tell me why” .. like, if I could tell you why or get over it, I fucking would! just arghhhh -__-
I’m having a bad day today and have absolutely zero tolerance for ignorance and/or arrogance.
SuicidalSilence i have one thing to say 🙂 GET OVER IT!! Ha ha! Really i’m joking but i’m not, we can’t fight thing’s if we can’t get over it, there is some truth to it, i will give you an example, i have nerve damage that causes horrible unnatural feelings, i’ve been to the doctors trying to find a cure but no luck 🙁 there comes a time when you have to say at least in my case, i’ve tried to cure this, it ain’t going to happen! so i have to get over it accept this is my normal and move on, if i don’t i will stay stuck! this maybe a bad example, but you can’t move on if you don’t get over it accept this is the way thing’s are, now i can work on improving the situation i’m stuck with. in my case this has helped. facing reality at some point helps dealing with the future.
understanding the ignorance of those who have hurt you. Why it exists, where it comes from, and how to cleanse and/or block it from entering the inner world of your mind, is how you overcome such hardship. True misery and true happiness are both contagious states of being. Everyone who enters this world starts off in a state of joy and bliss, and as we are exposed to increasing levels of judgement and cruelty, the joy within most fades away. The cure for this is understanding those who hurt us. You must learn to defend yourself against those who have attacked the joy that was once within you. I know it is difficult but is the only knowledge worth seeking in this life. I wish you luck in overcoming these struggles my friend.
Wise words.
I also don’t like that “get over it” specially when it comes from SP friends (in emails) bc they r People that should know how difficult and how long it takes for things to change a little bit and much more difficult is change in our favour.
Very good post!