A friend asked me if there’s any problem and I was like ”yes, there is”. I tried to tell him that it isn’t explainable and I don’t know how tell. He thought that I don’t trust him… well, I wanted him to understand that it isn’t about trust. It’s something else and he was like I don’t wanna talk to you like a stranger and then he said bye!
Was he supposed to do this and was I like all messed up…???
How can I explain it to others ??
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There are some things that can never be explained in words and your emotion is one of those things. But if your friend is like this to you, he’d just ignorantly misunderstanding, a true friend would’ve stayed and listened to you. Is there anyone else that you trust?
i guess not
I undersatnd you friend can be upset but is it you right not to tell him, I think whatever your choice it your friend will accept it eventually. A few tips, I learned from my mistakes when I tried to open up; because most of the time I remain silent but sometimes I just go on telling all about how my life sucks… My friends said they’ll be here for me and they kind of do to a certain point. But there is a border not to cross abd I crossed it too many times revealing secrets, horrible stuff people just don’t want to know, thinking it was a way for me to accept my problem. Now if you trust that person tell them everything step by step, in a somewhat euphemistic version so he doesn’t worry too much or turn your back on you
ok thankyou