I should just get it over with. For so long I’ve hesitated because it has to be a complete success, and I’ve always read so much about it being next to impossible for a fat person to kill themselves… including a 240 lb man surviving jumping in front of a train because of the extra padding that saved him, so my worthless, fat 360 lb waste of life has no chance. I’m also pretty much immortal, perfect blood pressure, perfect blood sugar, perfect cholesterol levels, the whole 9 yards – it’s perfect. Also never rich enough to afford a gun, can’t get either a gun or a car, can’t get a bus ticket out of state, left with no options and immediate need. I shouldn’t even come home after work. So sick of being shown over and over how much I am nothing, don’t count, and could never measure up to all the things a woman is supposed to be.
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I know what you feel. I feel digsted about myself too all the time. My weight is 360lb too. I’m blind, 32 years old and living in the netherlands. if you liek to talk you can email me: stefan at deds dot nl
You can go from 360lbs to whatever weight you want with some hard work. Go buy some weights today or sign up for the gym. Youtube and google are full of people who turned their life around from similar situations. Don’t die for the nookie, that’s pathetic and not saying you are. You can’t please anyone if your not happy with who you are. You have power you have worth and your weight says nothing about you as a person. You don’t have to be obese forever if you don’t want to, you just need to get MOTIVATED and change yourself. You have to work to love yourself so women can be attracted to you (and you’d be surprised to know there may be some that already do dig you, but I doubt you’d take my word on that with your current mentality). Be thankful you are not ill and can consider yourself immortal. Stop feeling powerless, stop being scared of working towards a goal. Exercise can strengthen your mind and body. If only you knew how good it felt to move weights, it feels like moving mountains. You have a long road ahead of you and know its daunting so you just want to cut the trip short with suicide. You already know what you have to do but fear is stopping you. Fear of quitting. Fear of commitment. Fear of change. Fear of other peoples opinions. Fear of trying. Workout, become physically/mentally strong and defeat your weaknesses. Exercise mind and body. I’ve been there and I really hope I can open your eyes, there is nothing stopping you but you. Don’t be scared, realize that you are not a coward. Be ferocious don’t be a whiner. No buts just get up and change yourself.
Oh and don’t bother replying if you have an excuse for me, ie why you can’t. Unless you want to tell me how you got up and bought some gym equipment or did some body-weight exercises you saw online, I don’t want to hear it. Just think of me as the women you want but can’t have because your doing nothing to improve yourself.
@mofims:
First of all you didnt read well in the posts of disgusting. First of all she’s a woman herself, and when you scroll through her posts she talked about a guy she loved, so i don’t know why you talk about women she would not be able to get.
Further: the whole post makes me scream. i’m 360lgb myself and althoug i’m not realy unhappy with it and it’s not the reason for my suicidal thoughts, your post sounds like a tvcommercial. I’ve done the things you suggest, because some people around me wanted me to. It doens’t feel like you are able to move mountains, it’s just terribly boring. The main point is: why should she, or i, change myself to please others? Why should we accept teh fact that we are only accepted or oved when we look more perfect? That the problem of this whole world: just be as we are that’s the only way to find love or be accepted, that’s bullshit. Peopel should be abel to accept and love eachother the way they are. Your motivational talk is so exactly what i wouldn’t wnat to hear when i was in her situation. Why should you work to stay longer in a world full of emptiness, lonliness and rejection? Because they will start to like us when we look like them? No, just realy no way.
Awesome response! I absolutely agree 100%. Ive lost weight and did everything “right and normal” with a lot of effort. Acted all happy in front of people. But that wasn’t the magic cure. I am just as miserable and empty. Life doesn’t get beautiful just because you change yourself. It hurts even more. I hope you find peace. 😉
OK my mistake for not recognizing she was a women. If exercise feels horribly boring to you – you just explained why you don’t exercise. You don’t like to exert yourself and rather take a backseat complaining how nobody likes you. You don’t participate you expect people to flock to you while doing nothing. Answer this, what is it you think people are attracted to when they get to know you? Your just a bundle of excuses bashing exercise like its useless. I’m trying to help this girl and your sugarcoating things. All this ‘I don’t need to look good for anyone else but me’ talk is you just rationalizing your 360 lbs and blindness caused from diabetes. How do you lie to yourself everyday and tell yourself your OK living obese and so unhealthy? Your complacent and comfortable, THAT right there makes me scream.
@disgusting: you can always email me if you wan to talk. my email is: stefan@deds.nl
@mofims:
I like to ask you a question: i don’t know if yu are a man or a woman so… if yoou had a relationship and your partner became fat, would you tell him/her you would leave, if heshe would not start excersising to change the boddy weigght and to become more attricctive to you again? If the answer is yes, you just don’t have a heart and than i think every discusion with you is senseless.
Do you think you help a girl that chose disgusting as a username, by telling her she has to change to maek others like her? Do you realy thnk someone that doesn’t like herslf wants to hear she is right and she has to change?
Although it doesn’t matter i’m born blind, so that diabetes nonsense you talked about is just crap. I have no diabetes at all and i’m born blind. People like you(with the saem type of talking and arguments) made my yoouth to a living hell and made me what i am now: a man with psychopathic tendensies, someone with totally no feelings of beeing worht annything, someone that just wants to go to hell because i think heaven will be full with people like you, knowing it always better. I thik god is like you: telling peopel they have to go on and go on to prove they deserve a place in heaven. The way you try to “help”works only for peopel that believe in this world, with all its absurd heartless opinions about what someone has to be or look like. if yu want to change her in someone that just does what everyone does, without thinking or feeling annything than just wanting to be like others, than you are on the right way. But if yu have anny idea of someones feelings, you wouldn’t come with this crap.
And yes i’m completely comfortable with my weight. In my case the reason i want to dy is not because i’m blind or 360lbs, but i wil not talk about that with you because i realy won’t be happy to hear your ideas about it.
@disgusting: i leffft my email address twice in this post so if you want to talk you can email me. I just hope the things i said make sense to you. Becase if you like the comments mofims gave, i will stop replying to them because this is your post.