Longstory short, I fell in love with someone in the 8th grade. I know it was love because for some weird reason I still think about her to this day. She did the same thing to me, and it in turn made me do the same thing to dozens of girls up until I was 20. Upon professing how the heartbreak still affected me, an old man said to me “Imagine how you made those girls feel.” And for the most part, I was instantly over that year-old heartbreak.
I have someone who says they care and then they sit and watch television all day while I cook and clean. I ask her what she would like to eat. If she would like some tea or soda. I bring her dinner and tell her at random times I love her. I ask her where she wants to go and what she wants to do etc. I surprise her on her birthday and valentines day. Never anything in return though. She sits and watches television. When she cooks it’s just for her. She has problems too but how does a person not recognize how to do something for someone or when especially when someone does for them and asks for it in return….?
You sound like a such a sexiest and a womanizer on s.p. so why would I listen to you? And if you read it again I said she too has problems (i.e. mental health problems).
Be a man huh? Real men respect people. They don’t use people for their own gain. A real man can do work without reward. A real man puts understanding and caring for another above his personal happiness. Men are supposed to be strong not ass holes. This, that I describe is strength, not laying down the law. Maybe when you mature and get away from the bible you will understand what really matters and how to be a man.
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I dumped a lady I did a lot for and loved,,,,
Lied to me,,,
Then didn’t want to apologize.
No doubt she felt just as you do…
But I simply found a better one.
🙂
I relate in a different fashion.
Longstory short, I fell in love with someone in the 8th grade. I know it was love because for some weird reason I still think about her to this day. She did the same thing to me, and it in turn made me do the same thing to dozens of girls up until I was 20. Upon professing how the heartbreak still affected me, an old man said to me “Imagine how you made those girls feel.” And for the most part, I was instantly over that year-old heartbreak.
Goodluck with everything
I have someone who says they care and then they sit and watch television all day while I cook and clean. I ask her what she would like to eat. If she would like some tea or soda. I bring her dinner and tell her at random times I love her. I ask her where she wants to go and what she wants to do etc. I surprise her on her birthday and valentines day. Never anything in return though. She sits and watches television. When she cooks it’s just for her. She has problems too but how does a person not recognize how to do something for someone or when especially when someone does for them and asks for it in return….?
You sound like a such a sexiest and a womanizer on s.p. so why would I listen to you? And if you read it again I said she too has problems (i.e. mental health problems).
Be a man huh? Real men respect people. They don’t use people for their own gain. A real man can do work without reward. A real man puts understanding and caring for another above his personal happiness. Men are supposed to be strong not ass holes. This, that I describe is strength, not laying down the law. Maybe when you mature and get away from the bible you will understand what really matters and how to be a man.
I live in the real world..
And no, never will get away from the Bible.
I see it like it is…
You described someone who is using you as a doormat…
And you let them do it. lol
That is what is sad..
My advice was given as an outsider looking in and trying to help you….
You might not like what I say…. but it is the truth and to the point….
if i had someone like u i would’ve given him more than he could imagine