Not at present. But have been there previously. Just don’t feel like my market value is high enough where I live. I suppose I am protecting myself from rejection, in reality.
There was a long time where I felt bitter towards women in general, but that has abated, and I am glad it has. What happened was that I met some kind women and was reminded that they are out there.
But haven’t had much luck here in the West. Don’t feel attractive enough here.
Anyway, maybe there is some truth to that cliché that you can’t expect someone else to love you until you love yourself. I don’t know.
My opinion of myself is so low that I don’t believe I have anything positive to contribute to a woman’s life, and whenever a woman likes me, I am convinced it is because she doesn’t know me well enough and sooner or later she will discover the actual me and then she won’t want me. And I just objectively feel like I am a bad deal.
Usually i feel the same way, like what could women see in me and i had once chance and that went terrible. Then i figure i try to shake it off and get out there. Well i do and find this awesome chick and after our first date which went great and seemed like it was going to be a thing and we were texting the day like normal and for no reason completely ghosts me. No idea what happened. I don’t want to be a misogynist but ive had nothing but bad experiences with women.
To be fair, I have ghosted women too. Not proud of it, but there you go. How well do you understand women, though?
There’s a podcast called the Mating Grounds podcast which I recommend. Because if a woman goes on a date with you that means she liked you enough to let you through that gate, which is significant. And then after that, maybe she just didn’t feel like you clicked or some other thing bothered her. And women will often not tell you this stuff. Partly, I think, because some men will react really badly to rejection, so it’s kind of hardwired into them to try to avoid having to reject guys outright. Also, women just have more options than us.
Know it’s a cliché, but if she didn’t like you enough to treat you with respect, she wasn’t the one for you.
Oh yeah I’ve written her off, it’s just my whole life was built around wanting a family and after endless nonsense in the dating world im figuring out if that’s what i really want out of life anymore. What is your situation if you doing mind me asking?
Yeah. I realized it in 6th grade. I can’t emotionally connect with girls. I don’t hate em fully but like, I just can’t see myself with one. I figured out I was both gay and kinda demisexual since I don’t wanna lock down with anyone I haven’t known for at least 2 years.
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Propably, MGTOW are everywhere.
Wow never heard of that before. That’s interesting
Not at present. But have been there previously. Just don’t feel like my market value is high enough where I live. I suppose I am protecting myself from rejection, in reality.
There was a long time where I felt bitter towards women in general, but that has abated, and I am glad it has. What happened was that I met some kind women and was reminded that they are out there.
But haven’t had much luck here in the West. Don’t feel attractive enough here.
Anyway, maybe there is some truth to that cliché that you can’t expect someone else to love you until you love yourself. I don’t know.
My opinion of myself is so low that I don’t believe I have anything positive to contribute to a woman’s life, and whenever a woman likes me, I am convinced it is because she doesn’t know me well enough and sooner or later she will discover the actual me and then she won’t want me. And I just objectively feel like I am a bad deal.
Usually i feel the same way, like what could women see in me and i had once chance and that went terrible. Then i figure i try to shake it off and get out there. Well i do and find this awesome chick and after our first date which went great and seemed like it was going to be a thing and we were texting the day like normal and for no reason completely ghosts me. No idea what happened. I don’t want to be a misogynist but ive had nothing but bad experiences with women.
To be fair, I have ghosted women too. Not proud of it, but there you go. How well do you understand women, though?
There’s a podcast called the Mating Grounds podcast which I recommend. Because if a woman goes on a date with you that means she liked you enough to let you through that gate, which is significant. And then after that, maybe she just didn’t feel like you clicked or some other thing bothered her. And women will often not tell you this stuff. Partly, I think, because some men will react really badly to rejection, so it’s kind of hardwired into them to try to avoid having to reject guys outright. Also, women just have more options than us.
Know it’s a cliché, but if she didn’t like you enough to treat you with respect, she wasn’t the one for you.
Oh yeah I’ve written her off, it’s just my whole life was built around wanting a family and after endless nonsense in the dating world im figuring out if that’s what i really want out of life anymore. What is your situation if you doing mind me asking?
As a gay man I had no choice. Lol
Yeah. I realized it in 6th grade. I can’t emotionally connect with girls. I don’t hate em fully but like, I just can’t see myself with one. I figured out I was both gay and kinda demisexual since I don’t wanna lock down with anyone I haven’t known for at least 2 years.