Some years ago I was in South America, I was not getting on with the party I was with, that’s no reflection on her and no reflection on me either.  I had been experimenting with ‘Paid ladies’, I didn’t think she would find out, it’s hard to say how she found out but in the end she found out. She waited until it was late one night and moved against me ” get the fuck out of this apartment you fucking ****, I know what you did, you’re obsessed with your dick, you make me sick, get out of my sight” she said. You might say that you would do this or do that if a particular situation happens but until it happens you don’t know how you will react. ” This is all in your head, you’ve smoked too much of that shit, you’re paranoid” I said. She turned into the Exorcist ” if you don’t get out now I’m calling the police, I’ll say you assaulted me, I know makeup you ****, I’ll bruise myself, my word against yours” she said. The hair stood up on the back of my neck. This had preceded the Johnny Depp/Amber Heard scenario by a few years but was strikingly similar. Johnny Depp, a gentleman, good thespian, loyal friend who carried the coffin of the late Shane MacGowan and was falsely accused of crimes against women. This can happen any man, I don’t know what Mr.Depp did to provoke such malice but in my case I had fucked up and brought it on myself to a degree. I had to leave the apartment in the middle of the fucking night until she calmed down. There is a Medea, Medusa, Banshee side to women which is potentially quite dangerous.