I’ve been on SP for like 3 years, lurking until now. I’m here just like all, if not most of you are; depressed, suicidal. I think I’m finally ready to open up here, at least it’s somewhere…
Thanks Plainwhite, I’ll probably talk more about this in future posts but I feel the main reason is loneliness and social isolation. I feel like a loser with no friends and no current job, just sitting at home doing nothing.
I have a job, and I have plenty of hobbies, and yet, like you, I’m lonely and socially isolated. The social aspect of our lives seems to carry a lot of weight, as least through my own perspective anyway.
Someone once told me that if you don’t know what you want or like, a good place to look at is in what you DONT want, or DONT like. The opposite of those things is what you want.
For example, if I don’t want to be poor, then what I want is financial stability. If I don’t like being inside all day, then what I do like is being out in nature. Etc.
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Hello corrupter, sorry you feel the way you do. What are your reasons, if any?
Thanks Plainwhite, I’ll probably talk more about this in future posts but I feel the main reason is loneliness and social isolation. I feel like a loser with no friends and no current job, just sitting at home doing nothing.
Same. Well congrats for having the desire to finally post and open up.
I appreciate it eternaldarkness.
Same. Well congrats for having the desire to finally post and open up.
I have a job, and I have plenty of hobbies, and yet, like you, I’m lonely and socially isolated. The social aspect of our lives seems to carry a lot of weight, as least through my own perspective anyway.
In any case, I look forward to reading your posts
Yeah I agree, I guess I am still trying to find my light when it comes to things I am interested in.
Someone once told me that if you don’t know what you want or like, a good place to look at is in what you DONT want, or DONT like. The opposite of those things is what you want.
For example, if I don’t want to be poor, then what I want is financial stability. If I don’t like being inside all day, then what I do like is being out in nature. Etc.
I find that true actually, I started walking every morning to get outside more and well, I am happy when doing so.