Hurm…my best guess is don’t do it. There’s something else for you? I can’t think of any since I prefer that method and burning yourself hurts way more and leaves bad scars. The point of cutting is different for some people, yeah it hurts but it makes people feel..better (not better but less worse). My first time cutting…really hurt a lot thankfully that razors were razor sharp and yeah so it may not be for you. Your name seems familiar to me for some reason :/
It’s not the right coping method for you. You should look for something else, like writing poetry, or playing an instrument or something. I’ve been trying to get over my coping habit of cutting, because I have a lot of other ways of coping with sadness, like writing songs, singing, playing guitar, giving advice. Just find what you’re passionate about, and use that to make the sadness go away. You are clearly not passionate about pain!
If you need to talk, feel free to email me or talk to me anytime. 🙂
I actually have played the violin for many many years now and i absolutley love it! i love how i get lost in the music. But i cant play it at home becuase its too loud. I can only play it in the 48 minute time slot for class and thats it. 🙁
i think that cutting is always hard because you are hurting yourself, whenever i started to cut deeper or just cut after i hadn’t done it for a while it was really hard to do it. but somehow i forced myself to do it, i felt somehow proud that i did it. the problem is that you only find out that that doesn’t mean a thing after you have already started cutting. if i were you i would try to not do it, because it is really addictive , there are times that i really do not want to cut, but somehow i really need to make a huge effort not to cut myself. you don’t want that. if you can forget about it, don’t let it get in your head, cause it will drive you crazy! believe me finding another way to deal with your emotion is in the end way easier then being addicted to cutting
I know. I found it hard to do it but for some reason i just kept trying and trying and hoping that eventually it would pierce the skin. I went over the same spot like 20 times and it hurt so bad but i was determined to bleed but i never did.
Dont rush to start cutting, if its not working for you try to find something else to distract yourself from your thoughts. I regret the first cut I made because now cutting is a way of life for me, I can’t go a day without cutting.
Haha your last comment made kinda laugh/giggle XD
I’m sorry that kinda…it sounds like an interesting scene if anyone had seen it…the first few times hurt…then it hurts soooo good? Cutting doesn’t seem like the thing for you try drawing? writing stories? poetry? o.o
Well I swear your name is familiar but oh well it’s made up so it’s nto someone I know lol
If you don’t like the feeling it just isn’t your thing. When I was a cutter I got to the point where I stuck with serrated blades, because they could dig deeper. Still it’s a very short endorphin high that only gives you a distraction for that moment. Not worth the effort when you only have more to hate about yourself later (the scars).
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Hurm…my best guess is don’t do it. There’s something else for you? I can’t think of any since I prefer that method and burning yourself hurts way more and leaves bad scars. The point of cutting is different for some people, yeah it hurts but it makes people feel..better (not better but less worse). My first time cutting…really hurt a lot thankfully that razors were razor sharp and yeah so it may not be for you. Your name seems familiar to me for some reason :/
I have no clue lol. I made it up so no body i know sees my real name.
It’s not the right coping method for you. You should look for something else, like writing poetry, or playing an instrument or something. I’ve been trying to get over my coping habit of cutting, because I have a lot of other ways of coping with sadness, like writing songs, singing, playing guitar, giving advice. Just find what you’re passionate about, and use that to make the sadness go away. You are clearly not passionate about pain!
If you need to talk, feel free to email me or talk to me anytime. 🙂
I actually have played the violin for many many years now and i absolutley love it! i love how i get lost in the music. But i cant play it at home becuase its too loud. I can only play it in the 48 minute time slot for class and thats it. 🙁
i think that cutting is always hard because you are hurting yourself, whenever i started to cut deeper or just cut after i hadn’t done it for a while it was really hard to do it. but somehow i forced myself to do it, i felt somehow proud that i did it. the problem is that you only find out that that doesn’t mean a thing after you have already started cutting. if i were you i would try to not do it, because it is really addictive , there are times that i really do not want to cut, but somehow i really need to make a huge effort not to cut myself. you don’t want that. if you can forget about it, don’t let it get in your head, cause it will drive you crazy! believe me finding another way to deal with your emotion is in the end way easier then being addicted to cutting
I know. I found it hard to do it but for some reason i just kept trying and trying and hoping that eventually it would pierce the skin. I went over the same spot like 20 times and it hurt so bad but i was determined to bleed but i never did.
Dont rush to start cutting, if its not working for you try to find something else to distract yourself from your thoughts. I regret the first cut I made because now cutting is a way of life for me, I can’t go a day without cutting.
Haha your last comment made kinda laugh/giggle XD
I’m sorry that kinda…it sounds like an interesting scene if anyone had seen it…the first few times hurt…then it hurts soooo good? Cutting doesn’t seem like the thing for you try drawing? writing stories? poetry? o.o
Well I swear your name is familiar but oh well it’s made up so it’s nto someone I know lol
Try smoking weed lol
If you don’t like the feeling it just isn’t your thing. When I was a cutter I got to the point where I stuck with serrated blades, because they could dig deeper. Still it’s a very short endorphin high that only gives you a distraction for that moment. Not worth the effort when you only have more to hate about yourself later (the scars).