Every since i tried to kill myself my dad has given me anything i wanted.some kids might call me luckey or spoiled or what ever but thats not what i want i dont need your sympathy or your empathy i need love i mean he dnt call to see how im doing or ask ow my day or week.been only time he ask that is when i call i mean what i did wasnt a cry for help but i mean since im still here you should atleast call to see how im.doing you never know when im going to leave for good wheather its by my own hands or someone else
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I think some times people don’t know how to ask. The fact that he keeps giving you what you want shows that there is something there.
Perhaps you could tell him directly that you’d trade in any of the stuff he gave you for his concern. You’d prefer he asked you how you are doing over material goods. Sometimes people don’t know what you need or want until you tell them. And I know that I am not in your situation so I don’t know all of how it works but maybe he would hear you if you said you wanted him to ask you how you are.
The last time i tried to kill myself my mom tod hin that what he was doing wasnt helping any and i told him that i dont want him to keep buying me stuff but he keeps doing it idk maybe thats just the way he deal with things but it makes me feel bad that he feel that way
He definitely cares for you, he just doesn’t know how to it seems, he could’ve had a distant father growing up and has no clue what you truly need. I agree with uttilini In telling him straight up what you need, i also don’t know exactly the situation and I don’t know your father but the best thing you can do is tell him. Tell him what you desire, and tell him a lot of what you told us (unless you want to keep small details that every person tends to keep from their parents)!