please.. Make the pain go away.. I’ll do anything!!
I like a total of three guys…
1. Aaron- lives far away and is always busy so we can’t really talk
2. John- lives far away
3. Garrett- lives close… But it seems like he only wants me sexually,
Love and life is so hard!!
I hurt to much! I don’t know if I can go on… I’m expecting a breakdown anyway now… I know I’ll have one… Just I don’t know when….
Please, help me!
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You could save yourself a lot of hurt by focusing your attention on more important things than guys. Give yourself some time and the right one will come along for you. Don’t worry about it so much.
Morgie, why are you seeking to define yourself through your relationships? Why don’t you try to live life for yourself, and set aside the ‘guys’. There will be many men in the future who will interest you – the problem is that those future relationships will be shaped and defined by how you are handling your current relationships, and defining or seeking to complete yourself in this way and at this time is only storing up trouble for your future.
For now – stay single, stay strong and, if you do, in the future the choices will be YOURS to make.
Practice the thought ‘nothing is more important than, that I feel good!’ Practice loving and appreciating yourself unconditionally. No one person or thing or activity can make you feel better unless YOU decide…you make a conscious choice that you are enough as you are.
Relationships magnify our issues that we have with our self when we don’t address them, and then they impact the relationship you’re in. Work within yourself to feel better. You can totally do this, you only need to decide to…the 2 previous replies are brilliant and they are making total sense in support of YOU. I encourage you to take a few gentle breaths and relax and be gentle with yourself. Ease and flow….it’s all good. Take care.
Girl..life is hard..guys will only make it harder. Don’t believe what you hear..you can trust your heart. I know that ive loved deeply..ive cared more than any guy has ever cared for me. You don’t need the guy to be far away..you need the guy who’s already there for you. All guys want sex and food. They will want that with other women too. Its just how they are..they chase..we produce. As soon as they get you they want someone else..they get bored..then they come back wanting you again. I’m sure there are good men out there that only want love from one woman..but for how long..depend on yourself alone & they do come running to you..but the one you fall for can also manipulate you and then change his mind and throw you out. I’m sorry dear..but there is no home here..nothing is fair, nothing is right. Only God can direct you..I wish you the best of luck.
Thanks everyone for replying…. But this is only one of the reasons I’ve been depressed… There’s lots more :/
What the hell. Three guys!
Duke of marmalade-
I’m complicated… Plus what’s wrong with liking three guys?!
Well, if your going by looks only then nothing.
Shes young Duke. Young people have multiple crushes often.
thank you..
Morgan, could you possibly be thinking that maybe one of these guys is going to fix you? Ya know, cure your depression? If you are, none of them can do that for you. You should concentrate on yourself. Not these guys.
Hmmm. I can see where your coming from. I used to like lots of girls but those weren’t crushes 😉
Morgan do what makes you happy and although things might seem obscure at the moment, they eventually work themselves out.
Take care and stay safe young one.
Yeah take a leaf out of thegoodgirls book. But even if she asked me out I would have to decline. You see, I like the badgirls.
😉
you guys don’t really understand… no body understands! this is just one reason why I’m depressed…. if you were in my shoes you’d understood how i feel.. but no body knows how i feel…. no body… so what is i like three guys?! theres nothing wrong with that… even if one only wants me sexually… and one is always busy and one wants to be with me but “can’t” I’m broken and i need someone to fix me, and right now i don’t care who it is! it can be a homeless man for all i care.. just as long as the pain goes away… so please don’t judge me, or assume things.. i put this up becuz its one of the reasons I’m depressed… theres many others that go along with it… i don’t mean to sound rude at all during this comment, btw…
I do understand that that’s not the only reason you are depressed. And there’s nothing wrong with you having a crush on these 3 guys. But a man is not going to fix you, Morgan. Especially the one that only wants you to have sex with him. That will only hurt you in the end. No one is judging you. We are all just trying to help you from eventually hurting yourself.
I’m sorry.. my comment wasn’t really called for.. just been having a bad week…. and well idk…. maybe your right.. but i know i can’t fix myself on my own..
I understand. Thegoodgirl is actually right. Shes probably been in the same situation and is using her noodle. You know when I first spoke to you, you put up your email address and wanted anybody to talk to you. Morgan, you don’t understand how dangerous the world is. I could have been anyone for all you know. You are in serious difficulties and need support. Your probably not going to get it there because boys mostly care about themselves. Watch movies, read books, write messages to people on here like me, just don’t dwell on things.
i did that becuz i need to talk to people.. i cannot be alone… i can’t handle that…. and yes i know exactly how dangerous the world can be!
….im complicated…
Why can’t I ask your advice for a change?
on what?
Hmmmmm let me think… Should I ask thegoodgirl out on a date… Do you think she’s really a bad girl… No thats not it.
Ah yes. I’ve been having a sort of mental breakdown which is brought on by medication. I can usually keep it together but recently I was so pissed off I sent an email around which they interpreted as being me wanting to kill myself but I merely made the point that I may precede them. Before that I got sozzled at the Christmas meal and nearly died from alcohol consumption.
I’ve been unhappy in my job for some time. But if I leave I won’t be able to maintain my repayments. I’m a lawyer so it’s difficult to find another job because I’m newly qualified and have no experience.
oh well… if the breakdowns are caused my the medication.. maybe you shouldn’t be taking it anymore? and i know jobs cn be hard.. but maybe look for the gun, and good in your job..
fun*****
Morgan if I don’t take medication I get boring. When I take it I’m quick and sharpe like now but for the other three days of the week I will be sick. You said you were complicated.
Anyway, your advice is not really helping. Can you give me some horse racing tips instead.
I would ask you to help me with my love life but I sense that is not your field of expertise. Plus everyone will think I’m even sader than they already do for taking relationship advice from a 14 yr old girl.
um thanks..
and i don’t know much about horse racing….
and maybe it is my field of expertise…. it probably isn’t.. not even close.. but u never know..
I was going to say ‘gun’ definitely the wrong time to use that word. Especially in the sam sentence as work.
and lol i meant fun,
It’s okay Morgan, I did not take offense to your comment. I just hope that you don’t rely on the wrong type of guys to “fix” you. It is hard to fix yourself, I know. But you need to do that first before you begin a relationship with someone. I agree with Duke, don’t dwell on things too much.
all i know is that i can’t be left alone..
It feels weird talking to people your probably never going to meet. Almost if I share things with them that I havent told people I’ve known for years. I can honestly say I would not be talking to a 14 yr old girl in the real world. Feels sort of refreshing but sad at the same time.
i know what u mean..
Hi gg
Why don’t you try chartrooms for people your age
id have to say that this site is probably more safer then a chat room…
that’d probably be dangerous =x
Yeah, don’t do chatrooms, Morgan. Bad advice, Duke. lol
So your nit ignoring me anymore GG
I don’t know anything about chat room or what the kids get up to these days. Must be better than talking to a weirdo like me? Hmmmm
chatrooms- a place where u can pretend to be someone your not….
wait so morgan is only 14?
That’s what you think. Wait til it gets hacked by al Qaeda
???????
When was I ignoring you Duke? And yeah, no chatrooms. Pervs hide out there.
yes i know
Yep there everywhere these days. Pervs not Al Qaeda
um… k…
See what I mean Morgan. Girls I’m invisible to girls. Even the ‘good ones’
im invisible to everyone..
Well, at least you would be able to rob a bank and not get caught.
thanks for giving me the good side of it
Why are you talking to me
why am i talking to you?
Yes. Is there no one in the real world, near your age group.
not anyone who will listen anyways
morgan, where you’re homegirls at?
haha i only have 2 and they don’t like to be around me when I’m “depressed”
your*
Does this make you feel any better. I’m sure you parents care about you. If I had a daughter it would upset me if she spoke to someone on the Internet and couldn’t speak to me. Actually, I would be horrified if she was on a site like this. About suicide.
my parents don’t know about this site.. i told my mom i cut, it made her cry…
what do you like to do? if i were a youngster from back of the day, i would be riding my BMX bike right now, and busting out tricks B)
Going to make a cup of tea. Back in 5. Dont go anywhere
lol k
why be depress? =) , got hit them up, how about… the skating rink? their might be some cute boys there 😉
haha i use to skate… quite becuz i looked weird on skates… or so my mom tells me… and my moms upstairs..
aight duke right on right on
where’s your mom at right now?
well did you enjoy it? you should give it another shot, skating is baddass ^^, what do you enjoy doing? Ask your mom if she wants to go kick it,
i write
I’m back
Does talking to me and other dudes on here make you feel better. That’s what I wanted to know.
na duke, we all just chillin’ 😉
Well thanks. Glad to be of service.
Anyway, if I didn’t break my last two laptops we could have played online multiplayer games but I’ve now been reduced to talking to with strangers on my iPhone.
Well written dialogue on here then. Do you have to be so particular.
sorry duke you’re not invincible, im just not much of a talker, i just usually butt in into conversations =p
Its been some time since your last comment.
Surely not. No way I thought it was impossible. I hope to god I havnt bored you to death.
Anyway, if you are just asleep and it has not proved fatal…
Take care and stay safe….
Or as someone who is slightly more eccentric than me would say. Namaste.
🙂