almost every week i get called ugly either once or twice. im a very nice person, i just dont know why people call me such mean names. today this boy really hurt my feelings, he said “your ugly if i called you cute id be lying…” but this same boy keeps asking me to have sex with him and asked me out twice! i know he doesn’t think im attractive but.. that broke my heart and it was in front of the entire class… middle school was hell, my “friend” posted my picture on facebook next to monkeys and ET and EVERYONE commented on it saying we look like twins.. people i didnt even know commented. I dont even like taking pictures anymore. i tried killing myself but it didnt work. im just tired of this! i know its lame and a stupid problem but it really hurts.. people call me stupid, dumb ugly, weird, wack…. WORDS HURT. i really dont know what to do, i dont even like school anymore, im depressed and my grades are terrible…. what should i do? i came to this so i can get my feelings out and MAYBE some good advice, my friend said this site made her stronger so lets see if it can work for me,
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I can relate to your feelings as well. I feel the same way some weeks with family members that I have in my life (and hopefully soon no more). I feel the same way about things right now. Just depressed about life in general.
What a jerk. Don’t do anything he says, have nothing at all to do with him. NOTHING because that will make the situation worse. Contact facebook and get the images removed or account closed. People say nasty things because they are just pathetic little idiots who feel important when the pick on people. Just remember, although it hurts, these things happen in school. Even happended to me when I was at school but I ended up knocking them out. Laugh it off and they will stop when they realise it’s not bothering you. It’s the reaction and power over your life these idiots get off on. Don’t make it easy for them. In fact if it was me I would bring up face book and laugh in front of their face. Do you ever remember the scene in the Nutty Professor where Buddy love goes back to the stand up comedian and wipes the floor with him. I’m not ashamed to say I’ve watched the film but it provided me with a usful analogy nonetheless.
Sounds like another case of bullying.
How, exactly, does society handle this problem? I mean, you can start a lawsuit because someone forgot to ice the sidewalk but if an entire class is free to cause psychological damage to one of their peers without any parent or teacher being aware or stepping in…THAT sounds like something we should defend by law.
I say things need to change. Bullies are misguided, broken people but society keeps rewarding them so we have a broken misguided society.
One day you will move out of that school and never have to talk or see any of those people again. I promise. They won’t have any part in your life and it will be for most of your life.
And it is not a lame and stupid problem. This is a serious problem that gets people hurt, damaged and even dead.
that boy probably likes you.and isnt i weird how the little things hurt the most!?!? like this one girl, no one likes her but when she says meen things to me in class i go crazy!!!!! i een unhed her but i have known her forever. they waste there breath talking about you . somedayy they will be forget and there heart will drop.
I can’t say ivee been through this because I’ve always had a great sense of self image. But perhaps i can offer advice.
You, are beautiful. Regardless of the hateful words of anyone. Chances are the reason they’re saying this is they may have seen a glimmer of something in you that they because jealous of… haters gonna hate ! But the only one who can make you feel truely ugly, is yourself.
The sooner you can accept yourself and stand tall to your tormenters, the sooner you’ll feel better. I was bullied for diffrent reasons. I switched schools and got a year away from my harassers. The shirra they see now is a changed person. These same people are now asking to be friends, and i have forgiven them. It was the greatest thing !
I hope and pray you will find the courage to find the beautiful in side of you. Stop picking out your flaws; what do you like about yourself ? Your eyes, your hair, maybe the shape of your fingers. What abilities or talents have you got that no one else has ? They could be so simple as being able to eat an entire bag of chocolate chips and not getting sick.
There’s always hope out there. You just have to find it 🙂 good luck.
i know how you feel. i have been called horrible things as well, and words really do hurt. like you, comments on my pics have really hurt me. its not a stupid problem at all. its so horrible what these people do you do, and they dont even care they do it in front of the class. people in this world sometimes really just dont care at all it seems. i have been bullied before while in school, and it really sucks. that boy really is a jerk. if you want you can e-mail me at danielle16yeah@gmail.com just to talk. i think i can relate to you quite alot. i hate taking my pic too, all i see is all the things i hate about me, and it sucks.