Do we medicate the “unhappy” person with the goal of making them feel less unhappy, or treat the root cause of the unhappiness? Such as the partner who persistantly lets everything go to SHIT??? So maybe I don’t “care” as much due to the drugs, but the underlying problems are still there. My wife is lazy and has no interetest in me – she is intrerested in her DOG! The ***** (the dog) has taken over the house and pisses/shits whereever she likes. THAT IS NOT RIGHT!!!!! I really hope ANYONE with similar experience can help me through this.
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talk to her!
in response to your question: dealing with the cause of the problem of course! Talk to your wife and try to get her off her lazy ass. Train the dog (even if it is your wife’s dog…at least it wont poo/piss around the house anymore). Maybe trying something new in the bedroom would help rekindle her interest. Like doing something totally sexy and unexpected. Maybe surprise her with a candlelit bath with floating rose petals or something. Then afterward, when she is relaxed and in a good mood, you can talk about the problems you have with her.