More often than not the most obvious answers are right under your nose, but mankind being what it is; prefer to complicate everything. It’s mostly to do with the ego why we do that.Â
Human life on earth: This is a material world. The reason people either suffer here and see it as a life of hell, or those who prosper and flourish here, and see it as ‘God’s work’ is solely down to that one fact: It’s a material world.Â
The ones who can prosper and flourish here can only do so by finding their enjoyment in the material things; this doesn’t necessarily mean money and objects, it means any creation of man, be that love (how we have created it to be – in another one human being (romance) ), status (not always meaning job status, but any status of respect or the need of another – (helping others) ), or religions, that man has also created. Â There is also science involved in this category but it can also be involved in the next.
Any person unable to find joy in this world simply finds no joy in the material, they have a deeper (or different) kind of soul. No-one knows for sure why everything is the way it is, how could we? And it really amuses me that throughout life, even on this site, people try endlessly to, or speak of their own beliefs so much to others (hence them validating their own beliefs, if someone else could just feel the same way, it would make it more real).
I have one theory but I also can accept many other theories as we simply do not know for sure until this human life dies. Science has proved now, despite physicists trying endlessly to be separate from ‘spiritual beliefs’ and ‘philosophy’ that there is multi dimensions, parallel universies and other solar systems just like ours (this is not my theory btw, this is proven fact). So my theory is that if this is now the truth, then it is very possible that our souls live many lives in many different worlds and as many different things, this life is one of those.Â
Living this life could be merely not much different to say, whether you like a particular kind of music or not, whether that music just gives you a headache and you can find no rhythm to it. Or you love this music and can dance all day and night, and teach others to dance to; or, you are just rather indifferent to this music, you could take or leave it but it’s the only music that’s available so you learn and try to accept it and find a dance that you can do.Â
I wont go down the path of whether it is right or wrong to want to end this life, but I will say that I don’t believe it to be the huge deal that some would make of it. The only reason that it is made a big deal out of is because of ‘God’ or religion. Religion is not worth discussing. But if any sort of God exists, that can only be a science that our human brains could never fathom so why try? And in the same vain, why fear it? Why love it for that matter? My belief is that ‘God’ isn’t a person, and so doesn’t need or want your ‘human love’ that is something which was created by yourselves, not God. (I am not talking about ‘pure love’ here, something that we are all made of but tend to ignore)
The only way to embrace life is with indifference. It’s a material world, you will never change that. You either find some joy in something material (including religion), or you will suffer.  If that suffering is beyond your capabilities and you have tried to fix it for many years, then yes, your only choice could be to end it. Fear is manmade and love (as we believe it to be here) is also manmade. Romance is a lost cause, it can only lead to heartbreak, unless you play the game very well. How can you call that any decent kind of love?
I agree that this life doesn’t have to be a material world, I don’t believe that life was created here for that purpose, it was created by greedy men. That can be the only logical reason why so many people suffer here, their emotions and spiritual capabilities are being crushed by this material world. You can’t honestly tell me that someone who is living a wonderful life here on earth has a real beautiful soul can you? Maybe in some very rare cases. If any of you think of someone who dedicates their lives to helping others less fortunate than themselves then I would argue that, that in itself is the lifeline that that person has found to allow them to enjoy this world, it’s what validates them. It doesn’t solve anything, and they have the capabilities to help solve the ultimate problem but they choose the softer option.If that person really wanted to help the less fortunate, they would help the entire population, their own species. Not simply helping the poor when they themselves pay and work for a system that is creating those poor people. No, they wouldn’t concentrate on the poor, or the ill, or the ‘sad’ they would refuse to support the system that is creating the mess, stop the mess, not just put a band aid on the wound. But, they wont do that because they could end up in danger themselves. They want to help others (and that is nice) but they don’t want to be them, they don’t want to experience their pain – heaven forbid! They don’t want to risk losing what makes their life comfortable enough to be able to help those less fortunate. Think about it, how many of the ones helping the less fortunate would say; if they lost their own home and loved ones, would they think to continue to go and help that poor person they were helping last week? Say they didn’t have the money anymore to help them, would they still go and keep them company, or would they focus their time on building their own life back up again. Everyone here thinks of themselves ultimately. And there is nothing wrong with that. It’s how man created itself to be! It’s all how it’s supposed to be. But it is not a good thing no mater how you look at it, be honest!
We do have the power to really help mankind to become a fine specimen, we were created ‘fine’, it’s man that has corrupted us and ruined out thinking. The only way really that you can help anyone suicidal that is on here is not by offering that individual some comfort, don’t you see? It’s wrong to focus on one life and see that as ‘well if I save one life that’s one more than nothing’ that’s so awful it really depresses me. If you really want to help that person you need to begin to change the system that created their situation. All this talk on here is pointless, I’m sorry to say this if it hurts anyone as I know you’re all good people, it just pains me to see that even our good people are deluded – sure your thinking will lead you down the right paths sometimes (cause that’s how you were created – ‘fine’) but do your legs, arms and torso follow that path? No. It’s almost like you are all lined up outside the factory gates to lend a hand to the cripples coming out of the factory. And that factory is where you yourself work and who you pay your money to. You support the system that is making people crippled and so you think that it would be ‘nice’ to lend a hand to them on the outside. When you could go inside and stop it form happening in the first place.
If someone is really suicidal on here and post a letter, they are not asking for you to help them, they are asking for everyone to see the light. To stand up for it’s own species. To stop this manmade life from destroying even more good souls. They are no different from you; you just found a purpose; they did not.
So whether you believe in a specific God, or whether you are materialistic or spiritual, doesn’t it just make sense to stop observing the suffering caused here to your own species and start to change the system? But then why would you? This life is suiting you, why upset that?