I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I split with my ex 7 months ago, we were together for 2 and half years things were bad and it was a messy break up but I still care for him and it’s fucking me up. About a month ago I lost a close friendship because I couldn’t be fucked with it anymore – she mucked me about and disrespected me but she had introduced to her group of friends and would always arrange to meet, I feel isolated now. I went out last night to a pre drinks then a house party I was having a great night until I went to town, I saw some boys my ex knew and we even lived with briefly. I started to flirt and dance with them in my drunken state and went home with one of them can’t quite put the pieces together whether we had sex or not…what a mess. I even mentioned to him how I fucked him over after we broke up…and the guy told me my ex is seeing someone which made me feel even more worthless, I couldn’t stop thinking about it and I started to think it would be better if my life didn’t exist and I wouldn’t have to deal with this pain, this loneliness. I walked home miserably at 4am took me an hour smoked a spliff, I could of been attacked or something but I don’t care for my safety anymore. I think I should just drink at home and avoid town at all costs…I have tried being positive but I don’t think things are going to get better, just seem to be getting worse. I’m over life.
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i know exactly how you feel i went through a horrible break up last year and i was messed up. i started doing drugs and sleeping around but he made me realize how good i am and what i deserve. the break up wasn’t that bad but when i thought about it it really hurt. what got me through it was focusing on myself. i read a lot drew more just basically did things i was passionate about. just focus and love yourself and you’ll get through it. trust me gorgeous you will.
Thank you soo much Usedcanvas. Yeah I haven’t slept around much because I did that with my last break up too and made me feel even worse in the end. This is the second guy I have slept (?) with since my break up. I hacked my ex facebook and found out what he had really been up to…on drugs, tinder, sleeping around, out every night – we were split up then but he’d be playing massive mind games with me at the same time. Saying stuff like let’s go on a date, I’ve made a big mistake, let’s meet for lunch all during the week but as soon as it was the weekend I wouldn’t hear from him. It has hurt me soo much…I just want to be over this! I’ve tried being positive and focusing on myself but I’m just back at square one again. How has he been able to move on and not me…