Has anyone thought of maybe castration or brain training to stop the urge for happiness relying on someone else? If maybe be we could take a magical pill to not want anyone else in our lives and be able to be happy with just ourselves, life might just be worth it? Ive been trying to be sole person in charge of my happiness but this terrible, social human nature is stopping that.
ive heard chemical castration is very hard to get unless your a high risk sex offender. Anyone know of any legal way to persuade a doctor?
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I don’t know if chemical castration would take away your desire to be with someone, or take away your natural aversion to being alone. It would only take away your desire for sex, and even asexuals get lonely.
I’m not trying to crush your hopes. I’m just cautioning you. Be aware of that possibility.
Even so, once that desire is quashed it’s one less thing
There are antidepressants that have this effect. It varies from person to person, though.
Good point. But again, be mindful that eliminating that desire could hamper your ability to find someone to be with. If you still feel loneliness, and therefore still long for a partner, your chances of finding one while having no sex drive would be decreased. Not trying to make this about myself, but I am speaking as an asexual who is very lonely. Most people want a partner with a sex drive.
Again, though, if your sexuality deeply bothers you, then go for it. I’m not about to stop you from pursuing your own happiness.
Good point. But again, be mindful that eliminating that desire could hamper your ability to find someone to be with. If you still feel loneliness, and therefore still long for a p@rtner, your chances of finding one while having no sex drive would be decreased. Not trying to make this about myself, but I am speaking as an asexual who is very lonely. Most people want a p@rtner with a sex drive.
Again, though, if your sexuality deeply bothers you, then go for it. I’m not about to stop you from pursuing your own happiness.
It’s in human nature to socialize. There is nothing chemical or medical to change human nature. I believe chemical castration will only “disable” your genitals so it doesn’t worth it. Just try to find the right people to socialize with and if you don’t want to or can’t just be good with and to yourself.