So I have many group of friends. One group planned to get ice cream and hang out but they bailed out on me. I was pretty upset. Then they said stuff and made me feel guilty. Then my other friend (different group) told me to go meet her at the mall and when I got there, she called me that she had an “appointment” somewhere else. So yeah. What are friends? Hurts that my trust is thinning. I couldn’t sleep all night last night until 6am and now I can’t stay awake. So terrible. I’m drained and numb to think of what they did to me.
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That happened a lot with me. I used to stay up entire night the entire week thinking about people who hurt me. But I closed all my contacts with everyone around me and felt better. Realised after long that friends dont feel a thing and have the ability to shut us off or hurt us. I decided to go underground just to keep safe. Love myself more sleep more and eat delicious food. In the end its just me who will be present for myself so might as well keep healthy
I try ignoring them but I feel bad. I am hurt that some can ignore me for days and text me back like it was nothing. And some will text me when they need help only. What should I do?
Dont just ignore. Shut them off. Stop all the communication with such people who cannot even send a text every morning but dont forget to pee everyday. We dont want those people to destroy our happiness you know. Cut them off so they have no way of contacting you. Disconnect and find a better circle of people and tell them first if they dont drop a text everyday then you will shut them off too. Those people dont deserve your time.
It’s so hard for me, I’m always helping people and I’m afraid of hurting them. I’ve tried shutting them down but it goes back. Maybe I will cut all my social media after this.
Love, friendship, family.
It’s all overrated.
And it’s hurts like hell.
If you are not involve with someone seriously then don’t get involved.
It’s good to be alone rather than a company or a person who hurts you again and agian.
And one more advice friend…
If somehow you find yourself in a situation where someone desperately wants to involve with you even after you throw her out so many times… then… accept that person in your life. And don’t let her go.
I hope you find that person.
You could have the type of friends that only want to take advantage of others under the false pretense of friendship (or the typical flaky kind that only want to hang out on their time but not yours) especially since you seem like the “easy target” they’re looking for (since you said you’re always helping people which means you won’t say no to them)
If they can’t be bothered to help you or if they’re the type you can’t trust, then you should drop them and look for a better friend instead of wasting your time with those chumps. After all, despite your fear of hurting them, there’s a line that’s crossed when they’re hurting you more so now you have to prioritize yourself and your happiness for your own sake.
And don’t let them guilt-trip you either.
Everyone tells me so but I guess I fear loneliness also. Not that it’s any different already. I make friends easily so it shouldn’t be a problem but I don’t know why I’m still holding back.
You have a fear of loneliness but take a look a round. What you fear is already happening. Who can you rely on?
You make acquaintances easily. Do friends still exist? Some people seem to only remember you only when they need some of their need satisfied; then they disappear until the next time