Yeah, well you there are lots of reasons to hate yourself… being a virgin @ 17 ain’t one… Do you have any life/career goals? You should know that at this time in your life, having sex is not going to do much for the quality of your life as you become an adult. So, I can understand if you are feeling down, but for the goodness sake, don’t let your virginity be the issue!
i can tell you from personal experience, sex does feel good but a good relationship is better. hating yourself i can understand and relate to. sex can ruin a relationship, its better to find a girl you can love without the physical part being necessary. im not telling you to wait until you are married, just until you have a relationship that is strong enough to take that. you say you have no one, find someone. the internet is acceptable. i have made some of my best friends on the internet, i even met my girlfriend there and i love her more than anything in the world. you will find someone, even if its long distance over the internet.
kay, darling, I’m 13, i’m not afraid to say i probably won’t have sex for another few years. I’m not gonna say that life is amazing and leave at that, but is death really any better? I’m not going to try an delude you into this wonderful makebelieve world that is too good to be true. I’m not gonna tell you you are an asshole for hating life for being a virgin, but i will say this; sometimes life isn’t worth living, but if you’re dead you won’t get to see the times when it is. I’m not gonna tell you to see a therapist because those don’t help at ALL. but i will tell you to see a friend because they ALWAYS will. i know sometimes you need to die to live but dying isn’t much fun. don’t leave a trail of blood. i may sound like a hypocrite because i’m not a bucket of sunshine either but never forget, for every tear, a laugh is at the corner. I want to start.
You think you got it bad because you are a virgin? I’m 19, a virgin and I don’t have those thoughts.
Let me ask you something. If you had sex would you stop being sad? Because if that’s true, let’s say you did…….but you get aids. Now that is a real reason for being down……being a virgin is not one of them.
at least you were not raped at least you still have your virginity. your not going to wake up at 15 at a party and realize that your friends left you there that you passed out and now that precious thing that you wanted to give to someone who meant something, someone who loved you was taken from you by a strager 7 years older than you.. and you won’t feel guilty for the rest of your life.. you won’t hate yourself..
virginity is a special thing, savor it while you can
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Yeah, well you there are lots of reasons to hate yourself… being a virgin @ 17 ain’t one… Do you have any life/career goals? You should know that at this time in your life, having sex is not going to do much for the quality of your life as you become an adult. So, I can understand if you are feeling down, but for the goodness sake, don’t let your virginity be the issue!
Not worth it.
i can tell you from personal experience, sex does feel good but a good relationship is better. hating yourself i can understand and relate to. sex can ruin a relationship, its better to find a girl you can love without the physical part being necessary. im not telling you to wait until you are married, just until you have a relationship that is strong enough to take that. you say you have no one, find someone. the internet is acceptable. i have made some of my best friends on the internet, i even met my girlfriend there and i love her more than anything in the world. you will find someone, even if its long distance over the internet.
hey, don’t be so down on yourself. being a virgin isn’t a problem. lots of people are virgins. go find one you truly love and have a great time.
sincerely,
Peaches
kay, darling, I’m 13, i’m not afraid to say i probably won’t have sex for another few years. I’m not gonna say that life is amazing and leave at that, but is death really any better? I’m not going to try an delude you into this wonderful makebelieve world that is too good to be true. I’m not gonna tell you you are an asshole for hating life for being a virgin, but i will say this; sometimes life isn’t worth living, but if you’re dead you won’t get to see the times when it is. I’m not gonna tell you to see a therapist because those don’t help at ALL. but i will tell you to see a friend because they ALWAYS will. i know sometimes you need to die to live but dying isn’t much fun. don’t leave a trail of blood. i may sound like a hypocrite because i’m not a bucket of sunshine either but never forget, for every tear, a laugh is at the corner. I want to start.
(me) KNOCK KNOCK!
(you) who’s there?
(me) I don’t know i’m just a fucking voice!
wow… um that was really cheesy… oh well.
hahaha
You think you got it bad because you are a virgin? I’m 19, a virgin and I don’t have those thoughts.
Let me ask you something. If you had sex would you stop being sad? Because if that’s true, let’s say you did…….but you get aids. Now that is a real reason for being down……being a virgin is not one of them.
at least you were not raped at least you still have your virginity. your not going to wake up at 15 at a party and realize that your friends left you there that you passed out and now that precious thing that you wanted to give to someone who meant something, someone who loved you was taken from you by a strager 7 years older than you.. and you won’t feel guilty for the rest of your life.. you won’t hate yourself..
virginity is a special thing, savor it while you can
besides, if you kill yourself now over it you will never lose your virginity.