God I was so stupid for thinking that he loved me. a week ago my fiance of 2 years left me for another girl. I really thought that he loved me ya know….I have been tried to be the best girlfriend, I don’t know what I did wrong. I just want someone that will love me for me and not try to change me. I’m so sick of trying to be everyones number one girl and all I do is fail. I want it all to end I don’t care anymore….
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Satoria
Been there…It is the worst feeling ever. Stick around for more to come! More of the good and more of the bad.
I bet you can spend a wonderful time loving yourself. Try new things: fitness program, hobby. a new look! Try something that you would not have dared to before. Try cooking a two hour recipe, keeping a fly-eating plant alive. Something that brings a a smile to your face.
Anyways, make yourself full of love inside. A sure thing is that it will spread.
And for the fiance well…move on. If I knew the miracle cure for a broken heart I would be rich! Actually, I am also going through a heartbreak. One thing I know is time heals. There are great books out there to give you tools to pull through. Undestand that he left you because of himself. Make yourself proud, strong, and lovingly in love with yourself by owning yourself. This includes your sadness, and also your acceptance that had you been a better girlfriend ultimately, he took the decision because of who he is. Well and he took this decision…that should be too bad for him. Not for you!
I say take it elsewhere. Make yourself happy! Make another one happy 😉
Hugs
Christine B.
Oh and
I wanted to add: be your own number one.
I think Im where you are right now.. I hope things get better for you. You deserve someone who will love you in every great way
I have been there and you know what? Love will come again! I was engaged to a man I was with for almost 2 years and he dumped me for his ex. Well, there are good guys out there! I found my husband who I just married last month (June 09) and we are very happy. He is amazing and I didn’t think I’d ever love again and I thought my life would never get better but he is the one! I do believe in someone who will treat you like a princess like you deserve and who will always be there through thick and thin. Through depression and everything. And he is. So please keep living life and see that someone will enter your life when you least expect it!
AND THE GREATEST REVENGE! Loving yourself (like Christine said) and when you love yourself, take care of yourself, etc. Guys will be lining up and even your fiance will come running back! I think Christina has some great advice!
Good luck and know we are here if you ever want to rant to talk.
I know how that goes almost exactly. Dated this girl for four years, only to have her tell me that she met someone else she REALLY loved and that she was only in the relationship with me because she felt stuck in it. She told me how much of a horrible monster I was and how she was never happy with me. She then left me for an older man, never speaking to me again.
Love sucks. I’m in the same boat as you right now and I’m not gonna try and say that “you’ll move on” or “you’ll find someone else” because, right now, I feel the exact same way you do.
If you wanna talk any more, my email is variousartists_ftw@yahoo.com